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| Author: | player567 [ Tue Feb 26, 2013 1:03 am ] |
| Post subject: | How to destroy the moment |
Ok, i hadn't read the forum in a while, but i thought i'd check out if anything new was up. And this just came to me so i thought i'd post it. Imagine this: Saturday night, you have plans to hang out with your friends, watch your favorite sports match or play videogames or whatever, drink some beer and have a good time and chill. Now, the whole previous week, imagine yourself downloading books from the internet on 'how to have a good time with your friend' , practicing in front of your mirror your lines, what you're gonna say when a goal comes up or when you'll greet them or what you're gonna say for goodbye. Or even browsing forums to read about what others think you should do when the time comes. Reminds you of anything? Anyway, why hasn't there been any post like:"How to talk friendly with your wingman while doing pickup?You'll tell me, of course, that communicating with your friends is pure insticts and you do it unconsciously and that happens because you've been doing it all along. Sure, there are guys out there, and in this forum i suppose, who aren't that good with friends too, let alone women. BUT .... ..... my point here in this post is, nothing can be as educating as real life. 20 hours of reading a book is like 1 hour in the real world. You have plans to go out tonight but you're feeling like a chicken? The right thing is not to stay home and read about someone else's story who has doubts whether its better to say 'Hi' than 'Hello' to an HB9. The right thing is to go out. Even if you chicken out in the end, you are going to have a better lesson than if you stayed in and lay on your bed with your iphone. Not knowing what to say when having a conversation with strangers is part of the process of learning it. PS: I've practiced pickup for a while, and i've noticed that to do it good you have to be in shape. By shape i mean not just physically (which is a great factor for your self esteem) but mentally too. I've had a girlfriend for almost a year now, and i met her after a CRAZY 3 week rampage with girls. I started small and by the end of the month i had been talking to any girl saying complete BS (like they'd be finding lame excuses just to get my attention and touch me) and both of us laughing with 'fuckme' eyes. I just liked her a lot so we are in a relationship now. |
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