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| Author: | 7seven [ Sun Feb 03, 2013 11:45 am ] |
| Post subject: | How to build inner natural game? |
Ways to improve your inner game quickly? I would like to have a positive and attractive vibe resonating from me that is visible to women. |
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| Author: | poeticlyskuac [ Mon Feb 04, 2013 2:44 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to build inner natural game? |
Quote: Ways to improve your inner game quickly? I would like to have a positive and attractive vibe resonating from me that is visible to women.
Unfortunately inner game is not quick.... It is actually a part of everything you do. How you think, How you walk, how you talk, how you hold yourself are all a part of inner game. Inner game is largely based on you having direction, self love, self belief, self worth(high self esteem), self confidence, etc. It's not just one thing and that is why it is so hard to attain.I highly recommend improving your body language to begin with as this helps open up a lot about your body language. There are some cool little videos you can watch for 21 days (day and night), it is basically a form of hypnosis as it instills the concept of being attractive to women. Here is and example video but there are tons of them. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x9pDfwsaOJI Go find yourself a good self-confidence (that includes self-esteem) program, coach, or book (I can give you a list of good books if you'd like), and then work at it, it could take 2 weeks or 2 months or 6 months. Just remember if inner game was easy every guy would have it but they don't. Peace and Love, Vic |
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| Author: | Entouraged [ Mon Feb 04, 2013 3:30 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to build inner natural game? |
No such thing as a quick route, but a fast route does exist. It wont take days, or weeks, maybe for some, but I would say a month and you can do this. If you are extroverted I recommend you do the 30 day challenge, this means every day for a month approach at least 5 sets. If you are introverted, I would say at least 3 times a week just go out and meet 5 people. 5 is just a starting point you can meet more, or less, less if your sets are going so well you insta-date and its a 1hr set or what not. Best of luck boss. |
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| Author: | SilverTonguedFox [ Sat Mar 30, 2013 3:35 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to build inner natural game? |
As others have said, inner game is no quick fix. It is a long-haul investment. At the very beginning I tried tacking on a few PUA tricks onto a very shaky frame, one which was entirely shy, broken, and had no perks. When I realised it was a band-aid fix, I dug in for the long run. As such i'll tell you how I did it. Look to people, friends, acquaintances, celebrities, political figures, TV show characters, movie stars etc who you admire. Note what is their spark and begin emulating it into your everyday doings. Be playful with words like Hank Moody, speak with effect like Don Draper, possess the body language of James Dean etc. Over time I took these abilities and built my persona. As I developed further, the self-love and confidence came knowing that I was more refined than the average bear. I peg my starting date (realisation I needed to change, build myself from the ground up) as March 2012. Concerning inner-game, around August/September I had gained that natural vibe/aura if I went hard-out and put in the effort to charm. Around February/March 2013, I now have that aura where I don't need to utter a word, but folk and women respond to me well in ways like never before. As Vic said, it's now all subconsciously in the way I walk, rate I talk, what I say, how I carry myself etc. Identify the traits and mannerisms you wish to possess, and work on hardwiring them in. At first it will feel foreign, then it will become natural, then it will become passively broadcast, and you will have that positive vibe resonating with zero effort. -SilverTonguedFox |
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| Author: | meetjoeblack [ Tue Apr 02, 2013 9:16 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to build inner natural game? |
Quote: Ways to improve your inner game quickly? I would like to have a positive and attractive vibe resonating from me that is visible to women.
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/241735I think it is similar to self development. Learning to build character, things like reading, hobbies, talents, education, interests, and dreams. Reading helps me avoid losing their interest. |
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| Author: | wingintyme [ Wed Apr 03, 2013 1:29 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to build inner natural game? |
Quote: Ways to improve your inner game quickly? I would like to have a positive and attractive vibe resonating from me that is visible to women.
I only somewhat agree with the posters saying it takes time. Theoretically they are correct. Philosophically I don't agree. To answer the question more accurately we have to know why you don't already have inner game |
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| Author: | Wall1e [ Wed Apr 03, 2013 6:41 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to build inner natural game? |
Don't be outcome dependant. If your going out to get succes = bad. If you go out and ACTUALLY DO WHATEVER YOU CAN TO GET SUCCES = better. If you eventually FAIL to achieve succes BUT allow yourself and see this as FEEDBACK, you will learn from yourself. By allowing yourself to make mistakes, you allow yourself to improve. Any succesfull guy has failed a lot to become succesfull. To actually get that inner natural game, you allow yourself to make mistakes, and then your inner game will build up, because you don't rely on the outcome to be happy or sad. Wallie |
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