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| Author: | Skatedude06 [ Thu Jan 03, 2013 5:58 am ] |
| Post subject: | How to get girls to chase you? |
I need help with this. I notice that you want it so girls chase you not the other way around but I can never get it tto work like that. I always feel like I'm chasing her. I know nit to text her often or ask to go out and stuff like that but if I do that nothing happens we dint talk. Did I just not create enough attraction or what? Help me out please. Appreciate any help guys. (I know the username ia lame its old lol) |
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| Author: | detox75 [ Thu Jan 03, 2013 6:04 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to get girls to chase you? |
Quote: Did I just not create enough attraction
this is exactly right. Learn to create attraction. AFC's try to trade their approval and demonstrate their interest in exchange for her attraction, no non-warpig is going to accept that trade.Creating attraction is a PUA's main skill, it isn't easy, but you have to learn it |
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| Author: | Skatedude06 [ Thu Jan 03, 2013 6:40 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to get girls to chase you? |
Quote: Quote: Did I just not create enough attraction
this is exactly right. Learn to create attraction. AFC's try to trade their approval and demonstrate their interest in exchange for her attraction, no non-warpig is going to accept that trade.Creating attraction is a PUA's main skill, it isn't easy, but you have to learn it Thanks I read alot of books and stuff and im not into routines and stuff like that. I feel i'm just now starting to get it. Any tips/advice on creating attraction or maybe point me in the way to get some info on it cause i feel thats where i struggle the most. |
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| Author: | puaninja [ Thu Jan 03, 2013 12:17 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to get girls to chase you? |
Let's look at it from another perspective. Say you go to a bar to pick up chicks. You are a pua and you aren't going to chase the girls around like a lost puppy dog. You'll open sets, but you'll maintain a solid frame and make them chase you. All of a sudden an HB9 opens you and starts flirting with you. She's rubbing your arm, laughing at your jokes, and giving you ioi's up the wazoo. She's talking about you guys hanging out after the bar and to make sure you give her your number later. You are feeling confident, loving life, and getting along famously. Then you order a drink and you turn around and now the girl is at the other side of the bar touching some other guy and laughing with him and ignoring you. What do you do? Two minutes ago you thought you were about to f-close, and now you aren't even sure if this girl is going to acknowlege you again. So you post up, hold out, try to be non-reactionary, but 10, 20, 30 minutes go by and she doesn't even so much as look back at you. Now your mind is spinning. You feel like you have no choice but to make your way over to her and try to get her attention again and win her affection. Normally you wouldn't do this, but this girl piqued your interest, got you hard, and you want more than anything to f-close her, or at least get her number. See what happens when someone creates attraction then snatches it away? It makes you want to chase. |
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| Author: | detox75 [ Thu Jan 03, 2013 5:15 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to get girls to chase you? |
Attraction can be created with DHV, keeping a strong inner frame, and great body language. I'm not huge on routines myself but you must learn to engage their emotions and speak in a way thats inherently captivating to woman (which is not like talking to guys). It seems like you just need to keep practicing, approaching opening, isolating to close using proper calibration. Sorry thats not specific but your just at a sticking point you need to work through. |
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