PUA Forum :: How do I actually get a girl to like me?

My intent isn't to have sex with her actually. I just want to be in a relationship with her. That's really all I want. And are you saying that if she is showing interest, I can go from there simply by talking to her and showing interest myself? Or is there something more to it?

You are mixing up Likability, Trustworthiness with Sexual escalation and Intent.
Now by definition being likeble and trustworthy you are already falling into the friend zone.

What you need is not she like you. Its to show her that you actually have a "dick"
Showing intent doesnt mean you have to be loud, doesnt mean you have to be a dickhead or a dushbag, its just mean that you let her know that you are interested and you are being a man about it.
You are probably just engaging her in a very logical way and not getting enough into the kino.
Again im assuming a lot.

The following videos might be harsh but that the dark reality of the game:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mo0d10Tl ... RaneAlfSGg

There really is no concept of a girl "liking you for you". She either likes you for your looks, or your money, or your ability to entertain her. Some girls might like hanging around you because you make them laugh, or maybe they like riding in your car, hanging out with your group of friends, or it could be that they think you'll be able to provide for them financially and they'll get nice things from you and they won't have to work as much.

What I recommend is using your words, instead of your actions, to flush out their true intentions. Don't just stop paying for shit all of a sudden, because that could fuck up your frame/reputation. Instead, drop little hints that the things she is accustomed to will be coming to an end soon. Then judge how she reacts. Tell her a check you were expecting didn't come thru, or a real estate deal didn't close, or you lost a lot of money on a stock trade. Act stressed out about it. This is the time when she should console you. If instead of consoling you she starts asking questions about when you are going to be getting more money again, and doesn't seem the least bit concerned about your emotional well being, then you'll know this girl is just looking for a free ride on your tab. And to be honest, most girls turn into gold diggers once they get with a guy who has money. But test her just to be sure.

Author:	Dr. Spargenator [ Tue Dec 25, 2012 7:28 am ]
Post subject:	How do I actually get a girl to like me?
Ok, so I know how to get attraction from a girl. I just be as alpha and high value as possible and the girls will think I'm cute. But how do I take it to the next level and actually get them to LIKE me rather than just think I'm cute? Do I just need to talk to them? Just keep being alpha and high value? Is this something that would require nlp?

Author:	Heartnet [ Wed Dec 26, 2012 10:29 am ]
Post subject:	Re: How do I actually get a girl to like me?
You are mixing up Likability, Trustworthiness with Sexual escalation and Intent. Now by definition being likeble and trustworthy you are already falling into the friend zone. What you need is not she like you. Its to show her that you actually have a "dick" Showing intent doesnt mean you have to be loud, doesnt mean you have to be a dickhead or a dushbag, its just mean that you let her know that you are interested and you are being a man about it. You are probably just engaging her in a very logical way and not getting enough into the kino. Again im assuming a lot. The following videos might be harsh but that the dark reality of the game: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mo0d10Tl ... RaneAlfSGg

Author:	puaninja [ Wed Dec 26, 2012 3:01 pm ]
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Yea bro, you have to actually run your routine on them. You're not a buck. You don't just strut around and show off and fight off other bucks and then all of sudden end up with all the does. These are women. You have to actually talk to them, get to know them, build trust, comfort, attraction, and then seduce them. The AFC way of thinking is that the women will somehow eventually come to you if they actually like you. That way there is no risk of embarassment for you and you don't have to do anything. This is of course completely wrong. You have to risk it all and go talk to them and MAKE them like you.

Author:	Dr. Spargenator [ Fri Dec 28, 2012 4:21 am ]
Post subject:	Re: How do I actually get a girl to like me?
My intent isn't to have sex with her actually. I just want to be in a relationship with her. That's really all I want. And are you saying that if she is showing interest, I can go from there simply by talking to her and showing interest myself? Or is there something more to it?

Author:	puaninja [ Fri Dec 28, 2012 3:29 pm ]
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Quote: My intent isn't to have sex with her actually. I just want to be in a relationship with her. That's really all I want. And are you saying that if she is showing interest, I can go from there simply by talking to her and showing interest myself? Or is there something more to it? You should slap yourself for saying that part I highlighted. I'm willing to let that go, however. You know what you do if a girl you like shows you interest? Go up and talk to her. You know what you do if a girl you like DOESN'T show you interest? Go up and talk to her. The way you game women is almost always the same. Learn how to run a routine and seduce women. That's all there is to it. If you want to make her your gf, great. If you want to knock her back out and kick her to the curb the next morning, great. Doesn't matter either way. Run your game.

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Author:	Dr. Spargenator [ Fri Dec 28, 2012 6:02 pm ]
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K. Thank u for ur help

Author:	Br3ezy [ Sun Dec 30, 2012 1:21 am ]
Post subject:	Re: How do I actually get a girl to like me?
Quote: You are mixing up Likability, Trustworthiness with Sexual escalation and Intent. Now by definition being likeble and trustworthy you are already falling into the friend zone. What you need is not she like you. Its to show her that you actually have a "dick" Showing intent doesnt mean you have to be loud, doesnt mean you have to be a dickhead or a dushbag, its just mean that you let her know that you are interested and you are being a man about it. You are probably just engaging her in a very logical way and not getting enough into the kino. Again im assuming a lot. The following videos might be harsh but that the dark reality of the game: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mo0d10Tl ... RaneAlfSGg how do you show her you have a dick :/ I am sorta strugglin on the Sexual escalation and Intent parts of this whole thing

Author:	officialpoypoy [ Wed Jan 16, 2013 11:44 pm ]
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as alpha you say you are it looks like your looking for a girls approval. just saying lol

Author:	AfricanAmber [ Wed Jan 16, 2013 11:52 pm ]
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This is some really really good advice that 'PUANINJA' gave me a while back Quote: There really is no concept of a girl "liking you for you". She either likes you for your looks, or your money, or your ability to entertain her. Some girls might like hanging around you because you make them laugh, or maybe they like riding in your car, hanging out with your group of friends, or it could be that they think you'll be able to provide for them financially and they'll get nice things from you and they won't have to work as much. What I recommend is using your words, instead of your actions, to flush out their true intentions. Don't just stop paying for shit all of a sudden, because that could fuck up your frame/reputation. Instead, drop little hints that the things she is accustomed to will be coming to an end soon. Then judge how she reacts. Tell her a check you were expecting didn't come thru, or a real estate deal didn't close, or you lost a lot of money on a stock trade. Act stressed out about it. This is the time when she should console you. If instead of consoling you she starts asking questions about when you are going to be getting more money again, and doesn't seem the least bit concerned about your emotional well being, then you'll know this girl is just looking for a free ride on your tab. And to be honest, most girls turn into gold diggers once they get with a guy who has money. But test her just to be sure.

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