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Author:  superrassler [ Thu Dec 20, 2012 1:05 am ]
Post subject:  Did I screw it?

Hello, I signed in on this forum long time ago. I apologize for my bad english and I hope I posted it in right session.

The reason why I'm writing this is: there's this girl in my class I talked to like 2 months ago.
We were in a group of her friends. I knew from the very beginning that what I want to do is to comfort her friends with my person. I did random questions, stories, etc.
Everything was going smoothly I joked, teased her, it was fine, girls asked me if I would go with them to a club, I said I dont know if I can, then she looked at me with a kind of a surprising and disapointed look "why?" I added I was in hospital not that long time ago and I dont know whether I can go out to such a loudly place. She said: "I'm sure something like that won't stop you"
Me: "I'm looking forward to it though not promising anything, will see, firstly I need to check it out with my buddies".
Didn't ask her for number as we are meeting every 2 weekends for 3 days.

She didnt come since then to any of meetings, as I know she was too busy with her work.
At the last meeting I asked her friends what is up with XXXX, they told me she is in hospital. I was trully schocked, I commented about this but I didnt want to show any affection thus didnt ask any more question about her.
And here I think I screw it. Few days ago, due to the circumstances I wrote to one of her friends a message with a random stuff about diploma paper and to say "hi" from me to XXX and wishing quick recovery.

Didnt get any reply.... though there was nothing to reply to, but still I wonder if I came by my actions as a needy to them(HER, and her friend)

Author:  Fragger [ Thu Dec 20, 2012 7:52 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Did I screw it?

I don't think you did anything wrong. Since there was nothing really to reply to, that girl didn't need to reply to you. They might think it's sweet of you to give her that message too. That girl might have just told your friend in hospital your message and never got around to replying back to you.

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