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Author:  e5 [ Sun Dec 09, 2012 1:23 am ]
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how would your interaction from approaching to closing be with a 7 as opposed to a 9?

(I understand every situation is different but generally speaking)


what would you do differently in terms of sexual escalation, teasing, qualifying, direct or indirect...etc

I've been thinking about this the other day and would like to know how you feel about it

enlighten me
Author:  SexAddict911 [ Sun Dec 09, 2012 4:08 am ]
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Quote:
how would your interaction from approaching to closing be with a 7 as opposed to a 9?

(I understand every situation is different but generally speaking)


what would you do differently in terms of sexual escalation, teasing, qualifying, direct or indirect...etc

I've been thinking about this the other day and would like to know how you feel about it

enlighten me
I would do absolutely nothing different. The only difference between a 7 and 9 is what you make it. The very thought of acting different based on a ranking, is to not be that of the desirable man. Do not base your actions on anything else then the very process of seducing her. Focus more on showing your good qualities, developing a connection and creating sexual attraction.

The best advice I can give you is to spend time and effort in making yourself the most attractive man you can. Soon enough you will be the one getting picked up.
Author:  puaninja [ Mon Dec 10, 2012 9:39 pm ]
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Pretty much the same, but I'd neg the 9 several times, and only compliment the 7.
Author:  midlife_crysus [ Tue Dec 11, 2012 7:02 am ]
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in theory not treating rankings of girls differently works and makes sense, but in practice,
it;s just different, it just is.

And alot of the difference is how they respond to you. Not so much what you do.
Author:  poeticlyskuac [ Tue Dec 11, 2012 7:41 pm ]
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Every single situation is different, you can run into a what you make consider a "9" and she could have the confidence of a "4", you run into a "7" who has the confidence of a "10". Basically there should be no difference in how you go through the courtship process based on her "rating" that really is just a matter of opinion anyways.

People on here get caught up in the ratings when you consider a woman a "10" but don't feel you actually are then you already think she is better than you, how the hell do you game a woman you subconsciously/consciously feel is "better" than you?

You respond to her and the situation, sometimes women need you to comfort them because they are having a rough day and you need to be that guy for them, other times you may need to knock her down to size, another time you may just need to be there because she wants to fuck a sexual attractive guy. Don't think "Oh, she is an X so I must game her this way." Think more like "Damn she is sexy I want to talk to her." Then you read things overall which is combination of the situation, her mood, her personality, the environment, etc.

The problem with a lot of PUA guys is they think there is only ONE way to game certain girls, my personality will work different with the exact same words than yours. We all have a different style, Natural isn't about being good in one area, it is about being the Responsive Man and responding properly. If you want to go natural you'll have several tools in your arsenal and use the tools according to the situation.

Get rid of your rating system, just realize a couple of things, do you want to fuck her? How bad? Learn to respond to the situation and forget about thinking that you need to change your behavior based on her appearance/rating.

Peace and Love,

Vic
Author:  donttakemywordasthetruth [ Wed Dec 12, 2012 6:05 pm ]
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I mostly agree with poeticlyskuac.

Would like to add something. There is an aspect of a womans number of rating guys based on how they respond to them. It is hard (or not) to imagine just like we rate a woman mostly based on her appearance, they rate us as the approachers in a different way. That way is not only how she sees us but the way they see approachers see them.
And the looks allso in my opinion matter, and it is important to act depending on yours and hers appearance towards each other, confidence/shyness. So if ur not her "type" you must adapt to responding in correlation with what she sees the world at that moment, through her eyes at you as she sees you, as a new person she might or might not like to know.
Her rating of being a potencial friend or a boyfriend changes throughout time she begins to know you. So how to act to get the hot girls you must first find out how they respond towards you, look at her face, what does it say, what is her current emotion? Well if its disgust you have to go but if its a smile definetly stay.
The question in ur mind was how to get, these values of beauty in numbers, to sleep with us. It depends on her reaction, after the reaction it is all up to you. They want to fuck someone that can make them crave him. It may be the confidence of a boss, richman, pretty boy, muscle man, honest man, you can even check what her father is like :wink:. Your confidence must reach her expectations. To prove urself you must use words to your advantage from her reaction. (AGAIN it depends on her reaction, if its a smile you can just take her hand and lead). The whole process has to be learned in your mindset from past experience or some sort of meditation and reading.
Author:  Bruce-Wayne [ Sat Jan 12, 2013 1:05 am ]
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In terms of openers I'd say go indirect with girls who are attractive and seem confident, and go direct with less attractive girls.
Author:  wingintyme [ Sat Jan 12, 2013 3:47 am ]
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7's and 9's can be very different but can be much the same. A lot of 7's think they are 9's and a lot of 9's think they are 7's. The intelligent ones of each type know by the caliber of men they have been hit on their whole lives what they are in life.

I agree with these posters in that I wouldn't change much in the initial interaction. When I'm in the talking mood I talk to all people the same way rather its a 10 or an old fat ugly man.
Author:  BarelyLegal [ Sat Jan 12, 2013 7:38 am ]
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Yeah, it's less about how hot they are and more about there attitude/personality. Though you're more likely to find a confident 9 than a confident 7, but you should have relentless self-confidence when dealing with any girl.
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