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| Author: | Br3ezy [ Sat Dec 08, 2012 4:18 am ] |
| Post subject: | question about natural game |
how do you create sexual tension through natural game? |
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| Author: | AFC AzA [ Sat Dec 08, 2012 5:08 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: question about natural game |
natural game is based on sexuallity . being sexual clear intention masculinity being sexual close proximity man to woman touching....(not kino escalation. no thump war can do good) |
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| Author: | romesvonwolf [ Thu Dec 13, 2012 12:55 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: question about natural game |
Sexual tension is really just a natural result of skillful flirting... Don't focus on creating sexual tension, instead focus on flirting. Tease her, challenge her, connect with her, stimulate emotions, create fun... but as you flirt, escalate physically with incidental kino, standing close, giving positive body language indicators (she turns into you, turn into her) (whisper in her ear) (smell her hair, and tell her she smells good) (hip check her) (side kick her in the ass). Sexual escalation should really be more like a background noise. You both know it's happening, but she isn't directly confronted with it (so she doesn't have to "be a good girl and deny it"). The tension comes from you both knowing it's there, but neither of you talking about it. It's like the elephant in the room metaphor. She won't know what to do with it (the tension) - you won't act on it, and therefor, tension is created. Tension really comes out of not acting on something, or not knowing how to act on something. |
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| Author: | puaninja [ Thu Dec 13, 2012 1:47 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: question about natural game |
romesvonwolf +1 When you flirt with a girl, or nag and banter with her, outsiders will often say :"Why don't you two just fuck and get it over with?!" That's exactly the type of vibe you want to create. It's so palpable and obvious that onlookers feel compelled to point it out. |
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| Author: | Gmorsik [ Sun Dec 23, 2012 6:47 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: question about natural game |
Many thanks for sharing good info…!!!) |
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| Author: | hugge [ Tue Jan 15, 2013 10:45 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: question about natural game |
To me, "natural game" is what you do if you are a normal, social competent guy. You just talk to people in a normal, relaxed way, and there is nothing weird about it. The opposite, running routines and other weird nerd stuff, is a substitute to social competence. Routines can be good as a start, or if you have Asperger's syndrome and can't read people (and I have friends who do). All people, socially competent or not, benefit from having interesting stories to tell, so that is not a bad thing. By learning about "the game" you soon realize that all you need to do is to have fun and have a welcoming attitude towards strangers. A little bit of phobia training is all that takes to have the guts. Being "in the game", a "pickup artist" and trying to get laid will just spoil your game, since it creates a desire for seeing results (which will make you needy and desperate). So don't try anything. Don't be "in the game". Just go out and be social. Most important of all, don't listen to all that BS about kino escalation. There is nothing magic about it, and it does certainly not create attraction! It is just an IOI, like anything else. And all IOI:s may in fact lower the attraction. But a lack of IOI:s may lower the attraction too, so it is all about finding the balance, which you will do naturally if you don't have any expectations, no desperation, and a playful attitude. And one last thing about being natural... Don't be afraid of saying or doing whatever you want. If you feel a very sudden and very strong attraction towards someone, go ahead and tell her/him. Everyone likes confirmation as long as it is real. The only important thing is how you say it. If you feel a desire for being physical, be physical. But again, never expect anything. Don't care about the results. Don't wait for an answer. Expect a negative outcome, do it anyway, and the response will probably be positive. |
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| Author: | davidlov [ Tue Jan 22, 2013 10:31 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: question about natural game |
flirting... |
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| Author: | Sh4rp [ Tue Jan 22, 2013 4:41 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: question about natural game |
Quote: To me, "natural game" is what you do if you are a normal, social competent guy. You just talk to people in a normal, relaxed way, and there is nothing weird about it.
This is solid adviceBy learning about "the game" you soon realize that all you need to do is to have fun and have a welcoming attitude towards strangers. Quote:
Most important of all, don't listen to all that BS about kino escalation. There is nothing magic about it, and it does certainly not create attraction!
I disagree. Kino is extremely important especially for one-night stands and short-term dating. Despite what she "tells you" you will find out a lot more about her intentions by her touch. If you're just looking to randomly date and collect numbers it's not as important but still something that you should use when sarging. Typically I can tell how quickly a woman is ready to progress by her touch. If you can make out with her when first meeting her chances are she will be willing to sleep with you that night or that week.Sexual tension is usually created in any seduction skill set by push-pull. Pull her in close, look at her lips, etc, and then push her away and tell her "We're not ready for this, yet..." The tension is caused by the pull physical pull and then physical push in this example. Another you can start to talk about sex and then disqualify her and say that "you don't have sex with people you just met." |
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