it would be easier to help you if we had some more information, maybe poste the whole conversation.
From what you are saying, it could sound like you are in general just uncalibrated, or something like that
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| Author: | jaropennies [ Sun Dec 02, 2012 4:51 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Dude, I just SUCK. |
Anytime I come in contact with girls in person, they always have a real nice conversation with me and always seem happy to talk to me. I'm really not a bad looking guy, but I always make sure to tie in humor and a fair bit of intelligence, even just from the words I use when speaking. Now to people on here, this is probably pretty normal and I get that, but the next part is either my part, or god is trying to tell me something, haha. Say I talked to a girl like that and then saw here on facebook. I'd be like "So that's where you work!" and mention some dumb thing about her job, ect, ect. The problem is, they almost never respond. I'm not embarrassed to say it, because without the truth this post would be useless. It happened last night, I saw this girl who used to be in my class checking me out when she was talking to me, getting really peppy and shit. So I texted her an hour later "Awesome to see you're back in _____ county, wanna meet up this week and find something to do!?". No response. It is almost as if girls really just aren't intersted, my game blows and makes me look like a creep. I'm starting a business and all of my social life has gone into that, it's been going great. One of my buddies said "Dude, it's almost like god is trying to tell you - Stay on course! -". I post this in such a frantic matter because it has happened to me all my life. Flirty, friendly in person, when I try to follow up - NOTHING. |
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| Author: | Valdemar1 [ Sun Dec 02, 2012 5:15 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Dude, I just SUCK. |
it would be easier to help you if we had some more information, maybe poste the whole conversation. From what you are saying, it could sound like you are in general just uncalibrated, or something like that
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| Author: | puaninja [ Mon Dec 03, 2012 1:17 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Dude, I just SUCK. |
You're telegraphing too much interest. Here's a trick to asking a girl out. You need to already have a level of comfort and rapport built with her and an ongoing conversation which leads into the date proposal. Eventually it will become intuitive that the next logical step for both of you is to meet up and hang out. That's called being smooth. And you should never say "We should find something to do?" or "Do you wanna hang out sometime?" It should be something like "Me and my boys will be at Devil's Martini tomorrow, you should stop by." or "I'm going to be at the mall on sunday to shop for christmas presents, would you like to join me." You want to make it seem like you are already going to be doing shit and you are bestowing on her the privlege of tagging along with you. Because she can't reject you going out the club or going to the mall. You are going there anyway. All she can do is decline the offer to join you. It's much less DLV for you to be rejected like that as opposed it looking like you had nothing to do but go out and get coffee with her on sunday, and now that she has declined you'll just be sitting at home alone. Do you see the subtle differences behind the philosphies of the right and wrong way to ask a girl out? |
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| Author: | Shadowboxer [ Tue Dec 04, 2012 12:10 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Dude, I just SUCK. |
Well maybe going under the radar doesn't work for you. I know that Going direct without sating a word has brought really good results for me lately. I watched a few videos of "The blueprint" and what I usually do (with girls in school) is like walk up to them and play thumb wars or some other hand game and just have a good time. |
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| Author: | donttakemywordasthetruth [ Tue Dec 04, 2012 11:36 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Dude, I just SUCK. |
I allso got a number from a girl that seemed interested and she allso didnt respond, I was texting her: gtg but im free on friday if you want to meet. No reponce. After a few weeks I added her on fb, started the chat. She said she was sorry for not responding. She was out and (by) the time she noticed the text it seemed no need to respond imo... At the end we did meet. Wait and try again is my advice. |
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