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I'm so close, but she keeps crying over her ex!
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Author:  Neobiff [ Wed Nov 28, 2012 9:25 pm ]
Post subject:  I'm so close, but she keeps crying over her ex!
So there is this HB10 that I work with.I used natural game at work and I got all the green lights. She was flirting with me, (giving me nicknames and bumping into me.) she had just broken up with her boyfriend, gave me her number ect... :P
So I invite her to my place and she flakes. I get an apology text the next day saying that she had an emotional breakdown and was crying too hard to come over, she's crying about her ex. Every time I text her she is always crying about her damn ex. As soon as she starts crying she stops responding. He dumped her and she too hung up on it. I am 100% positive if I get one on one hang out time with her I can close. But how do i get pst all her tears and get her not to think about him, but to come hang out with me? She was totally digging me so how do I get her to hang?

-Neobiff
Author:  lalaland87 [ Wed Nov 28, 2012 11:42 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: I'm so close, but she keeps crying over her ex!
Don't focus only on her, give her space and let her chase you!
Author:  puaninja [ Thu Nov 29, 2012 1:46 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: I'm so close, but she keeps crying over her ex!
Empathize with her. Tell her about your own breakup story. Be her shoulder to cry on and try to cheer her up. You'll need to NLP her a little bit and make sure she has a negative perception of her ex. Be like "What a jerk, how could he treat you like that?" Definitely don't be like "Wow, sounds like he was really a great guy!" Then build up her self-esteem and tell her that she deserves to be treated so much better than that because she is a really beautiful awesome person. Then finally, insert penis.
Author:  -enjoi- [ Tue Dec 04, 2012 3:31 am ]
Post subject:  Re: I'm so close, but she keeps crying over her ex!
The way I see it she may be into you but she's not in a state to be picked up right now. If it did succeed, you'd end up with a girl who's romantically unstable and it wouldn't end well for anyone.

Put the romantic ideas on hold and focus on building rapport. You should put in some cat string theory pretty heavy to ensure she doesn't see you as a "really amazing friend who helped her sooooo much." I don't mean cat string like you do when you're talking to a new girl in the bar. I mean let her text you first. Make sure she sees that other girls are into you. Even if you play it up like these girls aren't good enough, she needs to know that you're someone of value. All the while, keep being a nice guy like you are.

Just make sure that if she's not your girlfriend, and she's flaking, she can't be your first priority.
Author:  pussyfucker69 [ Wed Dec 05, 2012 7:11 am ]
Post subject:  Re: I'm so close, but she keeps crying over her ex!
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Empathize with her. Tell her about your own breakup story. Be her shoulder to cry on and try to cheer her up. You'll need to NLP her a little bit and make sure she has a negative perception of her ex. Be like "What a jerk, how could he treat you like that?" Definitely don't be like "Wow, sounds like he was really a great guy!" Then build up her self-esteem and tell her that she deserves to be treated so much better than that because she is a really beautiful awesome person. Then finally, insert penis.
Definitely emotionally manipulate the shit out of her, then hit it, quit it, and leave her life in shambles. 8) 8) fuck yeah
Author:  Mark_Eleven [ Wed Dec 05, 2012 8:08 am ]
Post subject:  Re: I'm so close, but she keeps crying over her ex!
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Definitely emotionally manipulate the shit out of her, then hit it, quit it, and leave her life in shambles. fuck yeah


And then years later you will somehow randomly run into her and she will completely destroy you in any way possible. One of the rules of PU is to always leave the girl in a better state than you found them, being a jerk is for the complete losers and insecure cunts out there. :evil:
Author:  -enjoi- [ Wed Dec 05, 2012 8:09 am ]
Post subject:  Re: I'm so close, but she keeps crying over her ex!
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Definitely emotionally manipulate the shit out of her, then hit it, quit it, and leave her life in shambles. fuck yeah


troll along, nothing to see here.
Author:  Dr. Jones [ Sun Dec 09, 2012 12:17 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: I'm so close, but she keeps crying over her ex!
A lot of people put out a "I want to save you by scooping you up into a better relationship" vibe, and that's destined to fail. Whether you want to spend one night or many more with her, sexual is the way to go.

Create that sexual vibe and be completely cool with whatever happens next. Outcome independence. She's got pent-up sexual urges, she has to get them out. Hey, why not with you, right?

I won't tell you specifically what to text, but "It's okay, we would've had way too much fun if you came over..." should pique her interest. Field-tested, too.

The important part being after you send it, you don't depend on her answer and you back off. Like others have said, you covertly let her know girls are into you. If she texts you, you'll know it's on.
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