When I'm not feeling like fucking around or don't have a reason/want to hang around for a little bit I'll often apocolypse. However when I don't it's pretty simple and pretty direct, basically I do this:
Eye contact- Unwaivering eye contact hold it. When she looks away, then looks back and your still looking at here eyes, you just built ridiculous amounts of attraction.
Open- I generally say "Hey" and may throw out something situational, but I'll usually just say something to the effect of "Your adorable" Then introduce myself.
Intro- I like to hold out my hand because at least in the US it's extremely common to shake hands with people when you meet them and it both starts your physical escalation and gets you into her space. Also some girls, more often if you had really good eye contact when you were walking to her, won't pull their hand away. If they don't pull there hand away don't pull yours away. If she pulls her hands away no big deal, if she doesn't your so far ahead of the game it's crazy, very good chance to make out or bounce her in as little as 5 minutes.
Get in her space- You want to be close to her, this lets her smell you, feel your energy and it communicates sexual attraction on a sub conscious level. If she stays in the space in very close proximity to you, on a sub conscious level her mind will associate that she is sexually attracted to you as well and she will be very quickly regardless of if she was initially or not.
From there it's pretty simple IMO, if she pulled her hand away and moved away from you, throw an over compliment out in the middle of the conversation and touch her again, on the hand or arm preferably. Something like "Your fucking sexy, my god I can hardly control myself".
If at that point she still won't let you have her hand or her space then leave, if she does take control, take her hand and isolate. Once your isolated then escalate and close.
Pretty much same thing holds true for both night and day game, only really difference IMO is the size of her space. You want to get much closer much faster during night game, so because it takes a little longer to get comparable spacing from her during the day it takes a little longer... by a little longer I'm still talking no more then 5-10 minutes and aiming for 2-3 minutes for day game before closing or bouncing. The other differnece IMO is that I've found it generally more effective to #-close and/or insta-date during the day vs. k-close and pull her to your place at night.
If you do insta-date from the day game though make sure to continue escalating and go for the pull back to your place sometime during the date (usually 30min-2hrs)
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