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| Author: | Libertine Aim [ Mon Oct 15, 2012 7:15 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Girl taller than me - problem with height |
Allright, last night i was taking a walk with a girl i'm seeing at the moment. She's an HB9, blonde and about 1.5 feet taller than me. Sweet girl and we are hitting it off good. Anyway, when we were walking, a woman (probably luna or alcholic) stops up at the street, looks at me and yell: "You'r dick is too small for her!". Suprised by the moment, I didn't respond too well and said "your hair is too fast for your bicycle", with a smile (she had that classic '80s hairstyle, long in neck, short in top). After that incident my girl totally changed behaviour. She stopped holdning hands and putted them in her pockets, didn't got so many IOI's from her, etc.. I get a lot of shit of my height, and I feel its my "achielles heal". I'm looking for advice on how I can maintaine Alpha when I get mogged at my height. Right now I'm just pretending that it dosent bother me, and always laugh it off. Hope some of you can help me. //LA |
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| Author: | Az007 [ Mon Oct 15, 2012 8:30 pm ] |
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bro, firstly i'm sorry about what happened with the 'luna' as you put it. Anyways, the fact of the matter is that you are still concerned about your height. When it comes to pick up the 'fake it till you make it' principle only works if you're an amazing actor. Otherwise you'll have to internalize all the awesomeness and truly believe what you're selling. In my opinion, i feel that your girl might have picked up on this insecurity because you reacted. I don't think it's beyond repair but you'll have to work on inner game and solidify your belief system and let no one shake it. You should be her rock in any fucking shit storm the world throws at you. Best of luck, Az |
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| Author: | Luffy [ Mon Oct 15, 2012 11:05 pm ] |
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Learn to troll/roast on people who bother. My friend I think is 5 ft exactly or shorter and he constantly has beautiful tall girlfriends with him. The guy is better than me at picking up :/ . |
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| Author: | brary [ Wed Oct 17, 2012 3:40 pm ] |
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Maybe she's the one insecure about her height? |
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| Author: | puaninja [ Wed Oct 17, 2012 4:28 pm ] |
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Lolz, I'm not going to call this girl I met because I don't like tall girls. She's 5'10" and even in heels, I'm STILL taller than her. But I just don't like tall girls, what can I say. |
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| Author: | b1663r [ Mon Oct 22, 2012 12:16 am ] |
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if you still feel short, wear some platforms (man boots - red wing shoes). being short also usually comes with the notion of a bigger dick, if you think about it proportionally, it will always appear bigger on a shorter guy. also, build your shoulders, a wide shoulders and strong upper torso, makes you look strong and really stable, with your hands around a girl's hips, they love it. think about it, all the short guys gets the babes, Prince, Tom Cruise, Robert Downey Jr, Bob Dylan, there are loads of people who are below 6" and are doing awesome. plus always be ready for short comments. the reason she must have felt uncomfortable, is because you must have displayed a sense of discomfort or a lack of confidence vibe. |
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| Author: | User_bmr [ Mon Oct 22, 2012 11:03 pm ] |
| Post subject: | my experience... A story with a happy ending |
i had two girlfriends with 1,80 m of heigh... They were 25 cm higher than me. And you know what, height isnt a barrier. Girls tend to call you teddy bear and cuddle you if you dont mention height problems and do the game properly. Like neil strauss, he is short too. And about sex, well most nerves are in the entrance of the womens lock to paradise, so there's no problem |
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| Author: | clickngo [ Tue Oct 23, 2012 5:17 am ] |
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"1.5 feet taller than me" I take it shes 6.5 and your 5 foot, or your 5 foot and shes 7? Dude height is crap, if two people like each other thats all that matters. Sex doesn't become ["un-possible"]  I am going after this girl and shes like 5'9 I am 5'7 |
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| Author: | Mateothegreat [ Sat Nov 03, 2012 10:29 am ] |
| Post subject: | you got this |
Im 5'6 and back when i was good at the game ( though i didnt know it then, and was still insecure) i FCd a girl that was at least 7 feet tall, first time i went in for a kiss she bent over like a mother kissing her child, it was actually kind of hot. heighth doesnt matter, that luna was an ass, and in any rate next time throw back some light hearted confidence... say something like" it may be small but it still hits all the right spots ..... obviously youll need to feel the girl out, and i think the guy who posted that the girl was self conscious about her heighth might be on to something |
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| Author: | donttakemywordasthetruth [ Thu Nov 08, 2012 8:06 pm ] |
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I met a girl who was taller than me. After a quick chat I told her to sit down next to me, as I am tired of looking up at her. She quickly responded: you would look up at me anyway. I was quiet and continued the conversation as nothing happened, she sat down next to me and our chat continued and we had a great time. I was first thinking what the hell for a split second but now as I try to understand what she ment was her bragging and trying to let me know that she is tall and hot. So keep it cool, ur response comes from inner feeling, so why not ignore it and just contiue to have fun. |
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| Author: | poeticlyskuac [ Thu Nov 08, 2012 9:40 pm ] |
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Quote: Maybe she's the one insecure about her height?
I think Brary has it right. She is probably really insecure about her height as well. People seem to forget that a lot of tall women are uncomfortable with their height because they in a lot of cases prefer taller men. She may have felt weird about dating a smaller guy after someone else talked shit, you getting defensive likely made her defensive as well. She thought about how you guys looked together, if you would have laughed it off and been like whatever she would have likely just laughed and kept going along with it, instead however you allowed that woman to change your mood/energy and thus the energy of the situation. If anyone ever talks shit on you or your height just roll with it. If they sit there and say that all you have to come back with is something like this: Yeah and my dick is tiny for my size, could you imagine how small it is for my gorgeous taller girl? Yeah my dick is too small, but my tongue is too big, what do you do? I just can't get it right. It doesn't really matter, that needs to be shown. What they have to say doesn't affect you at all. Just my thoughts.... Peace and Love, Vic |
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| Author: | TruthApple [ Sun Nov 18, 2012 6:26 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Girl taller than me - problem with height |
Height isn't even close to be an issue. First: the loony - if something like this happens to someone the logical thing would be to say "now that's weird", or anything that will lower the importance of the stupid statement. Second: I met a lot of guys who are shorter than me (and mind you, I'm 5'8) going out with girls half a head higher than them (without high heels, figure). It's confidence, If you don't care about her height she won't care about it either. |
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| Author: | The Joker S [ Mon Nov 19, 2012 4:04 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Girl taller than me - problem with height |
Quote: Maybe she's the one insecure about her height?
That is fucking spot on. I am 5'5 -5'6 not exactly sure but when I was dating a girl who was 6'4 she was insulted the height difference.Quote:
if you still feel short, wear some platforms (man boots - red wing shoes). being short also usually comes with the notion of a bigger dick, if you think about it proportionally, it will always appear bigger on a shorter guy.
The dick thing made my fucking day lolYou can go for platforms but I felt it made my game weaker as I would panic if I wasn't wearing them. Plus the next morning getting outta bed and being a further 3 inches shorter than I already am, sometimes those looks would piss me off. Roll with it now and you'll be way better at game in the future. Thats my plan. I think some of these are gold. Maybe just try to experiment with it.I normally just ignore and laugh it off. Quote: Yeah my dick is too small, but my tongue is too big, what do you do? I just can't get it right.
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| Author: | andyredsox [ Mon Nov 19, 2012 9:32 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Girl taller than me - problem with height |
Man if you allow that to get you, your height will always bother you, no matter who you're with. Accept it, and be confident of your game. Girls act differently if you are confident- tall or short. |
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