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| Author: | Ryden [ Mon Sep 24, 2012 5:18 am ] |
| Post subject: | Can't read this chick! |
Ok so there's this chick that I have hooked up with twice now (whilist drunk) and for the first time in ages i actually like this chick! I've been so long out of the dating game that I have absolutely no idea how to ask her out or even ask her to hang out. I don't have her mobile number im just friends with her on facebook and I really don't want to be that gay prick who asks chicks out online. Here's the scenario, So im pretty sure she only see's me as a drunk hook up, I have a reputation for hooking up with chicks and never talking to them again so that's definitely working against me... I have a reputation i want to keep around my mates as that guy that always hooks up with chicks with out a care in the world, which sadly isn't true in this case haha... I barely see this chick, the only time i see her is randomly at parties on a friday night or briefly around college. How is one supposed to talk to a chick he never see's? We hooked up, had oral and snuggled and shit a few nights ago and i haven't seen her since.. She did however ask my mate and I to come watch a movie with her? I know i should of acted on that but i discarded the question saying that she would have to watch us skate for an hour before the movie, she proceeded to say fuck that haha. I may have fucked everything up by having a very general conversation with her two day's later over facebook. Nothing flirtatious or anything. I literally have no idea how to act around girls I want to date. The only thing I can do is get girls into bed with me which in the long run is shit... Wtf do i do? Last time i went on a date was high school 2 years ago... |
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| Author: | poeticlyskuac [ Mon Sep 24, 2012 8:14 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Can't read this chick! |
Quote: Ok so there's this chick that I have hooked up with twice now (whilist drunk) and for the first time in ages i actually like this chick!
I've been so long out of the dating game that I have absolutely no idea how to ask her out or even ask her to hang out. I don't have her mobile number im just friends with her on facebook and I really don't want to be that gay prick who asks chicks out online. Here's the scenario, So im pretty sure she only see's me as a drunk hook up, I have a reputation for hooking up with chicks and never talking to them again so that's definitely working against me... I have a reputation i want to keep around my mates as that guy that always hooks up with chicks with out a care in the world, which sadly isn't true in this case haha... I barely see this chick, the only time i see her is randomly at parties on a friday night or briefly around college. How is one supposed to talk to a chick he never see's? We hooked up, had oral and snuggled and shit a few nights ago and i haven't seen her since.. She did however ask my mate and I to come watch a movie with her? I know i should of acted on that but i discarded the question saying that she would have to watch us skate for an hour before the movie, she proceeded to say fuck that haha. I may have fucked everything up by having a very general conversation with her two day's later over facebook. Nothing flirtatious or anything. I literally have no idea how to act around girls I want to date. The only thing I can do is get girls into bed with me which in the long run is shit... Wtf do i do? Last time i went on a date was high school 2 years ago... If you want to read that girl you want to look for preens, submissive signals, eye contact, touch, lingering touch, feet, etc. There is a show I have been doing lately you can click my signature or go to this thread be warned there is over an hour worth of video with some repeats (behaviors overlap each other). poeticlyskuacs-body-language-show-does- ... 37501.html If you want to ask her out then just ask her to hang out. She obviously wants to or she wouldn't have asked. Start initial contact with her through facebook eventually invite her to the same party or whatever other event and collect her number to meet up. Or just wait for the next time you see her and collect her number, then go through the regular contact and ask her out. You have to just nut up. Nothing else to say make insignificant contact, then make the contact more significant, then ask out. Nothing complicated about it. Obviously she is interested in you or she wouldn't keep hooking up. She also tried to hang out and you blew her off, you have to play the interested without caring as much as her. Peace and Love, Vic Peace and Love, Vic |
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| Author: | Aspiring [ Wed Sep 26, 2012 6:08 am ] |
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First off get your head on straight. You seem to be WAY over complicating this. You like her, she likes you. Chill you brain out and be Natural. That's what this section is all about. Build Rapport. That means find stuff in common so you'll have a reason to see each other again. Use questions like "if you could wake up tomorrow anywhere in the world, where would it be?" then discuss it. Connect with her and find her passion - that's what sets apart a hook up from an awesome relationship you can be happy in. PS It's always the ones we can't read that we want |
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