PUA Forum :: Sarging alone

I had this epiphany the other day. It went like this:

There are so many celebrities / heroes of mine I want to hang out with. Why should they hang out with little old me, if I am not willing to hang out with people who think I am awesome?

Sowing and reaping man. To get friends, you need to be a friend.

Trust me bro, you know a lot of people. Contact them and invite them out. I have found that the guys who have the most to learn from me and appreciate me the most, will show up EVERY SINGLE TIME. The guys I feel most equal to or admire the most are often usually too busy. Build yourself a new posse. Practice leadership. It makes night game way cooler and you have a crew to fall back on. Also if you meet a girl that you are not into, then hook her up with your buddies. They can do the same. Bam, now you are a matchmaker.

Every single place I go, shopping, walking, fitness, I am gaming alone. It's all practice for when it really really counts.

Author:	Eerie [ Sun Sep 09, 2012 1:36 am ]
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I'm a total noob. All my friends have girlfriends and I have NOBODY to go out with anymore. Is it possible to go at it alone? Has anybody done this? What can I do?

Author:	detox75 [ Sun Sep 09, 2012 2:52 am ]
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yes, I do it all the time. You just have to devise ways to auto-proof yourself and have ready answers to the questions you are going to get, have answers that increase attraction. Sargeing alone will jump-start your skill set and everyone should do it on occasion.

Author:	Czech. [ Sun Sep 09, 2012 6:39 am ]
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I spent about 6 months going to the bars by myself. It SUCKED. If you're really serious about getting good at cold approaches then I'd definitely recommend it. Your learning curve will shoot up. If you just want to meet women, try getting involved with more activities, like university clubs, fitness classes or hip hop dancing lessons. They're a great way to meet girls in a fun environment.

Author:	Deduct [ Sun Sep 09, 2012 4:52 pm ]
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Try daygaming, personally i just LOVE it. Sarging at your school, work, malls etcetera. People dont expect to get hit on on the streets etcetera so it will show confidence etc. And most of all i can only go out on friday/saturday BUT i can daygame every day of the week! Sometimes its better to go WITHOUT a wingman, that way you come over less intimidating and you can get her comfortable around you alot quicker/easier. Another thing is peer pressure, the fear of failing in front of your friends/wings when you sarge alone you don't have that pressure and you can game more comfortable. [works for me at least] with nightgame you can still go out alone and succeed very well. usually when i go out sarging i dont have any wings, however i dont go alone to clubs. I go with a bunch of friends and then i seperate myself from them and go sarging alone. I only use my friends when sarging when i need some social proofing and showing that im not some loner. But go out daygaming ^^ I personally just love it

Author:	puaninja [ Mon Sep 10, 2012 6:02 pm ]
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I hate solo sarging, especially for night game. But it's easier with daygame. The problem with solo sarging is that there is always this thought in the back of your targets' mind that you could be a serial killer. Even if you don't use your wing in your sets, you can at least say you are with him, or maybe they see you with him before or after the encounter. You can also point him out or breifly introduce him. That will give you the requisite social proofing needed to calm her nerves and prove you are a normal person and not some creepy loner who stalks girls in the mall. If you are nightgaming solo, you better at least find you a safety set, even if it's dudes. I went sarging last weekend and my wing left me alone for like five minutes. I was literally standing by myself in a crowded bar with people socializing with each other all around me. I looked around and saw some tall dude with his friend and I started talking to him about being tall (I'm tall too). We were talking, laughing, and most importantly, making me look like I was a social, friendly person in front of potential sets.

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Author:	RonnPaul [ Mon Sep 10, 2012 7:17 pm ]
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Go out alone and find some female friends. Actually im working on that shit right now, so i hope it will be good. Imagine going out to club with two female friends...just awesome. Going out at night alone is intense, i went out once, still did good, and it was my newbie mission, but im happy i did it. It was hard as fuck, but i pushed myself.

Author:	how_r_u [ Mon Sep 10, 2012 8:10 pm ]
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Yeah, do some day game. That works just fine if you're by yourself.

Author:	Reality Show [ Tue Sep 11, 2012 12:03 am ]
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I had this epiphany the other day. It went like this: There are so many celebrities / heroes of mine I want to hang out with. Why should they hang out with little old me, if I am not willing to hang out with people who think I am awesome? Sowing and reaping man. To get friends, you need to be a friend. Trust me bro, you know a lot of people. Contact them and invite them out. I have found that the guys who have the most to learn from me and appreciate me the most, will show up EVERY SINGLE TIME. The guys I feel most equal to or admire the most are often usually too busy. Build yourself a new posse. Practice leadership. It makes night game way cooler and you have a crew to fall back on. Also if you meet a girl that you are not into, then hook her up with your buddies. They can do the same. Bam, now you are a matchmaker. Every single place I go, shopping, walking, fitness, I am gaming alone. It's all practice for when it really really counts.

Author:	skills360 [ Tue Sep 11, 2012 1:37 am ]
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Sarging alone works wonders in night game, i don't know why you guys say day game.....I have been sargin alone for almost 10 years, i actually have a dude following me around the last 3 weeks(i am teaching him), and i hate it...

Author:	Eerie [ Tue Sep 11, 2012 1:59 pm ]
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I'm just curious about how to not come off like a creepy alcoholic. I'm not sure how to be comfortable by myself like that. I'd have to find someone quickly to be my "friend" for the night without coming of needy or creepy.

Author:	puaninja [ Tue Sep 11, 2012 2:13 pm ]
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You need to develop your inner game a bit then. Don't get too drunk. Find safety sets. I know its hard to be comfortable in your own skin sometimes, especially in a high octane club environment where everyone seems to be socializing and having fun, yet you are all by yourself nursing a beer. There's a reason why people dedicate their entire lives to learning and creating complex methods for how to master the club/nightgame scene. It's a tricky one.

Author:	skills360 [ Tue Sep 11, 2012 6:46 pm ]
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Drinking is weak, false confidence!

Author:	RitualSlave [ Tue Sep 11, 2012 8:41 pm ]
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Quote: I had this epiphany the other day. It went like this: There are so many celebrities / heroes of mine I want to hang out with. Why should they hang out with little old me, if I am not willing to hang out with people who think I am awesome? Sowing and reaping man. To get friends, you need to be a friend. Trust me bro, you know a lot of people. Contact them and invite them out. I have found that the guys who have the most to learn from me and appreciate me the most, will show up EVERY SINGLE TIME. The guys I feel most equal to or admire the most are often usually too busy. Build yourself a new posse. Practice leadership. It makes night game way cooler and you have a crew to fall back on. Also if you meet a girl that you are not into, then hook her up with your buddies. They can do the same. Bam, now you are a matchmaker. Every single place I go, shopping, walking, fitness, I am gaming alone. It's all practice for when it really really counts. I like this quote. I think I'll do that more often.

Author:	RitualSlave [ Tue Sep 11, 2012 9:25 pm ]
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Quote: Drinking is weak, false confidence! Agreed. Nothing's black and white though -- perhaps use it for rapport building (as in "We both drink socially," not as in "You're drunk, surrender your drunk ass to me and let me take advantage of you")

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Author:	skills360 [ Wed Sep 12, 2012 1:55 am ]
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Quote: Quote: Drinking is weak, false confidence! Agreed. Nothing's black and white though -- perhaps use it for rapport building (as in "We both drink socially," not as in "You're drunk, surrender your drunk ass to me and let me take advantage of you") Drink to loosen up if you have to or to be social but i keep saying it is no needed, and is expensive, if you like to drink cause you like it, cool, but if you drink to approach and/or as an excuse to say i got rejected cause i was drunk(the excuse for no dealing with rejection) then is bad...