Thought i would make a quick post on gaming in the workplace.
Link to the post on my blog.
http://theattractiveu.com/work-place-ga ... ld-report/
Work Place Game (Extraction/Field Report)
So i hear a lot of guys asking how to game in the workplace. I usually try and stay away from this…but life’s to short.
So here is the deal if you want to “game” a girl that works with you or in your office you MUST get here outside of the office place. Maybe go out for lunch or for coffee break. In the work environment you are limited to what you can do since you could possibly ruin your image with the wrong move.
In the work place attraction starts from the moment a women notices you are handsome or good looking, your value is high, your sociable, everyone knows you. These things raise your value in the work place. Being humorous and not being so serious and uptight like most people are. Making the girl you are into laugh by making jokes. Be fun. Women will look forward to coming to work just to have fun and talk with you. That’s the theme i have built around myself so far. Be attractive by doing these things. Even if you don’t have any of these traits you can still probably get a girl out to lunch and begin gaming.
So recently i picked up a chick who works in my building. So the first thing i had to do was EXTRACT her from the building. Women are usually more up tight in the work environment since they don’t want to ruin there image. Especially not a place they are at everyday. So you MUST get the girl out. Maybe even after work for happy hour or something. It doesn’t have to be extravagant. Just something to give you time to show her some fun, and get to know each other, building rapport.
I got her out to lunch RIGHT in front of my building. We were sitting and talking, me DHV’ing, talking about her, negging her a little bit, teasing and making her feel open and at home. I used some social touch dynamics by high fiving her for her telling me things i wanted to hear.
(Qualification). So i broke the touch barrier here. So she begins to tell me how she doesn’t like clubbing, and crowded places, etc. She preferred coffee and conversation things like that. So i found this to be the perfect chance to run my “Walk in the woods” routine. She was AMAZED at the results. She felt like i already knew her on a level most guys DON’T. Guys take some time out to add some routines and psychological tests such as the cube etc. to your arsenal. Women LOVE this type of stuff. It really builds the attraction. So after we finished she felt as if you needed to qualify herself by telling me one of her own psychological stories. She told me she wanted to get coffee so i said lets go. She tells me the story on the way there. Meanwhile guys who worked in my office where walking pass giving me thumbs up. haha that was pretty funny. So while we were in starbucks we some how got on the topic of her being picky and a control freak. After i started busting her balls on this, she then tries and qualifies herself saying she is what all guys are looking for, and this and that. I was actually laughing in my head. “Wow, look at her scramble.” So i tell her to come up to my office with me to give her a tour. While i was walking in some of my co-workers were standing around smiling looking like AFC’s. haha. It was funny. So she comes to my desk and we talk, i tease her make her laugh. blah blah blah. She hit my chest and felt it was hard. “Omg, you work out?!”(Sexual tension) Then i teased her about her abs(Touching her stomach) After that we go to the elevators and she walks up to me and asked when was she going to see me again. I probably should have walked away then, but she ended up showing me where she sat on her floor.
She is leaving town on Saturday so we hugged agreed to see each other again before she leaves(You know what that means
. Through out the entire process i was touching her on the arm while opening doors etc.Anyway to make a long story short in most circumstances this is what you have to do..extract the girl from the office.
Sluggler