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Author:  BigMike1985 [ Tue Mar 27, 2012 4:48 am ]
Post subject:  The Big Picture
All your female problems and their solutions
revolve around one thing.

And it goes like this...

“It’s not about you, it’s about them...

but more importantly, it’s about you.”

let me explain...

A women wants to be part of something that
is bigger than her, she wants to be with a man
who is on his purpose. Or who is at least taking
action into the unknown to make things happen
in his life, and can be proud about that.

A man who doesn't mind her in his life from time
to time, but is on his path, and that is his priority.
Till then, till he accomplishes what he is set out to
do, she can be but a second thought in his life.

Give women that gift.

Making a women your number one priority puts
too much pressure on her and subtly pushes her away!

All this wanting to have the hottest chicks, wanting
to get that real success of smoking hot girls around
you is the paradox. And the second you want it, you
become that wanting little baby that is trying to figure
out the ways to look like an attractive guy that hot
women want to date. Needy, grasping little roach
crawling up for air, and repelling everything in your path.

It might fuck with your mind, because you can portray
an attractive man at any instant, and a girl will be into
you, but over time, she will see you for what you really
are, what you are after, what you always revert to.
The self doubting man, “looking” feeling” “wanting”
a woman to complete him or his incomplete puzzle.

This mentality is man at its lowest form, and you had
no idea you were doing it.

Here’s the truth. You don’t need material success, or
spiritual awakening, or pimp swag, or whatever you want
to call it.

You need to commit to something bigger than women,
you need to know your priorities.

Only then can women feel comfortable being around you,
because they no longer feel this pressure YOU put on
them in the first place.

They want to hear about your adventures, your trials and
tribulations, your path towards manhood and success.

They want to be part of the grand scheme. They do NOT
want to be the end all be all.


Fortunately you can let these insights materialize in your
mind. You can change by taking new actions.

The principles are there. The actions are there. The
masculine traits behind it are there.

Your incompetence, your failure to understand this is
your fault and your fault only now, because I put it all
out there.

And if it’s too much to handle than go back to being
that “wanting” “complaining” little roach you were.
Because no one is going to make you change, no one
but yourself.

So don’t kid yourself, don't be a fool.

You see it, others see it, and it’s a sad sad thing.

But know this.

It’s not just you all on your own against the world.

The truth is.

We are all secretly rooting for you, especially those
beautiful women. Because real men are hard to find.

You can still be that man if you are willing to commit.

So start living life on purpose, and go after those goals
you slowly lost desire for.

And be a better man for it.

Cheers

Big Mike
Author:  Male Member [ Wed Apr 04, 2012 11:00 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The Big Picture
Quote:
You need to commit to something bigger than women,
you need to know your priorities.

Only then can women feel comfortable being around you,
because they no longer feel this pressure YOU put on
them in the first place.

They want to hear about your adventures, your trials and
tribulations, your path towards manhood and success.

They want to be part of the grand scheme. They do NOT
want to be the end all be all.
Pressure. Awkwardness. This applies to my situation perfectly. When I imagine being with a girl right now, no matter how attractive I couldn't think of anything to say to her or do with her (besides sex, I mean) and I've been wondering what about girls, dating, sexual tension, whatever could be responsible for this blockade. Turns out it's got nothing to do with PUA, I just need to get some direction into my way of life in general. I'm drifting, losing focus. I've been aware of it for a long time but as I said I was simply caught up in a blame game, trying to determine that one thing that's holding me back.

Thanks! Constructive critisizm for the future, I think you could have made your point in much fewer words.
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