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Author:  Ciano [ Thu Feb 02, 2012 12:53 pm ]
Post subject:  My targets aren't taking me serious

Hi MPUA
Fantastic site. I'm visiting every single day and gets a lot of useful stuff.
I'm facing a problem. I love to open my target with a different and funny opener - and it works! The targets are showing me interest and are joking with me etc. But I have tendency to go on with that joke (because my personality is like that), and then the target can't take me seriously and only things I wanna be a funny friend.
What should I do to make her sure about I was just making a funny opener? Can't I have an unserious conversation with a girl without her thinking I'm just a funny friend?

Author:  scloune [ Thu Feb 02, 2012 3:31 pm ]
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Escalate :wink:

And lots of other stuff, but this generally..

Author:  Stelar [ Thu Feb 02, 2012 3:39 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: My targets aren't taking me serious

Quote:
Hi MPUA
Fantastic site. I'm visiting every single day and gets a lot of useful stuff.
I'm facing a problem. I love to open my target with a different and funny opener - and it works! The targets are showing me interest and are joking with me etc. But I have tendency to go on with that joke (because my personality is like that), and then the target can't take me seriously and only things I wanna be a funny friend.
What should I do to make her sure about I was just making a funny opener? Can't I have an unserious conversation with a girl without her thinking I'm just a funny friend?
Funny and friendly (nothing sexual ) = "Let's just be Friends"

Direct and Sexual (no rapport ) = Maybe fuck-buddies or one night stand

Sexual and Playful (+ Rapport) = Boyfriend

Author:  Teh_Weapon [ Thu Feb 02, 2012 7:48 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: My targets aren't taking me serious

Quote:
Quote:
Hi MPUA
Fantastic site. I'm visiting every single day and gets a lot of useful stuff.
I'm facing a problem. I love to open my target with a different and funny opener - and it works! The targets are showing me interest and are joking with me etc. But I have tendency to go on with that joke (because my personality is like that), and then the target can't take me seriously and only things I wanna be a funny friend.
What should I do to make her sure about I was just making a funny opener? Can't I have an unserious conversation with a girl without her thinking I'm just a funny friend?
Funny and friendly (nothing sexual ) = "Let's just be Friends"

Direct and Sexual (no rapport ) = Maybe fuck-buddies or one night stand

Sexual and Playful (+ Rapport) = Boyfriend
Can't be said better

Author:  Ciano [ Fri Feb 03, 2012 4:08 pm ]
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Thanks for your post. But got some simple questions. Sexual, how? Some examples so I know what you mean. Direct? In what matter?
Playful I do understand, and you are right. Need to be more of that

Author:  Stelar [ Fri Feb 03, 2012 7:16 pm ]
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Quote:
Thanks for your post. But got some simple questions. Sexual, how? Some examples so I know what you mean. Direct? In what matter?
Playful I do understand, and you are right. Need to be more of that
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Author:  alan1983 [ Tue Feb 07, 2012 1:33 am ]
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Dont stack too many jokes after eachother. Im guilty of that. If youre quick to find something funny to say, you usually fall into that trap. Shes usually receptive which can lead you to overdo it.

Also, dont be all smiling and laughing and making too much facial expressions with your jokes. Say something funny in a teasing confident manner.

Dont do too much self deprecating humor. That can be good when you have the alpha image.

Author:  jabmaster [ Tue Feb 07, 2012 3:44 am ]
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Learn to tease!!!!

That way you keep on joking and at the same time generate attraction... just dont overdo it

Author:  poeticlyskuac [ Wed Feb 08, 2012 6:01 pm ]
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What I have come to do is I have made myself such an attractive mate, that how I joke has nothing to do with anything. I don't at all see me joking around with a person an issue. I assume the attraction and go from there.

I went to a concert on Monday and with one girl I didn't say one serious thing and she was still super attracted to me. Of course at a certain point in the conversation if it some how turns serious I am able to turn off that joker and just LISTEN.

Author:  jogi99 [ Sat Feb 11, 2012 1:40 pm ]
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too much c&f. reduce this start with comfort and raport

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