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| Author: | g-force [ Fri Nov 18, 2011 2:50 pm ] |
| Post subject: | the blow out |
So here was tonight's sarge fail. I had amazing ioi's from a HB8. I social proofed rather well and had the fortunate opportunity for a playful neg indirect opener. She took it, and my natural game ended in a kiss close, BUT, after the kiss I failed to get digits, she met with her mates, a few cock-blockers there, I went to the mens, came back and game over HB8 had left. Total interaction from opener to close was 30seconds to a min. I think when we parted company something happened and she left. Any advice to avoid this happening again? I took time for granted. BIG BLOW OUT. |
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| Author: | PUAMonster [ Fri Nov 18, 2011 6:36 pm ] |
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If you K-closed in 1 min you're doing something right man. Something probably just came up and it's most likely nothing to do with you. Pat yourself on the back and move on. Cheers |
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| Author: | AznPersuasion [ Fri Nov 18, 2011 6:57 pm ] |
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Agreed. It's not a big deal. Just chalk it up to, "I'm awesome," and find an HB9 this time! |
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| Author: | Endooo [ Tue Nov 22, 2011 2:18 am ] |
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It was an accomplishment rather than a fail bro! |
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| Author: | Sinathos [ Tue Nov 22, 2011 5:04 am ] |
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She could have gone without the k-close. So it's count it as a win. You did good. As soon as she left you should've looked for another target. Keep it that way! |
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| Author: | 0uch [ Tue Nov 22, 2011 2:58 pm ] |
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a minute kiss close is a bad deal imo in public places. I use to roll with this guy who would get crazy make outs, but never pulled. Me and my buddy would never make out, and we were the ones doing all the pulling. Making out, especially too soon in public places just makes you look cheesy. Girls, even though there super horny, have to be escalated a lot slower. There needs to be push/pull. Add negative to the positive. LMR is very real. Even if you girls to your pad, you still have to push and pull instead of just escalating very quickly to sex. Of course I am taking about the girls you have not slept with yet here. |
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| Author: | AznPersuasion [ Tue Nov 22, 2011 9:08 pm ] |
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Hmm, Ouch makes a good point. It's not necessarily true in every case, mind you, but women often wish to AVOID looking like sluts in public. They still are, don't get me wrong, but if you pull and take them somewhere else to fulfill their dirty whore desires, you'd probably get to do more than make out with these women. And if you say, "What if she's a nice girl and doesn't want to sleep with me (LMR)," then you're looking too far ahead. Situational awareness. I feel like I took back my previous opinion completely there, so I apologize. |
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| Author: | g-force [ Tue Nov 22, 2011 9:14 pm ] |
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cheers. I agree totally. I was just trying out one of Gamblers stealth seduction skills for the first time and yip, it worked a charm. But yes definitely I will slow the pace down. It's not normally a part of my game. I am still in the throws of finding the balance of the push and pull. I have always been annoyed by PDA myself. One thing I am annoyed about is that she seemed like GF material in the brief discussion. All good though, lots more fish in the sea. |
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