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Author:  supmag [ Fri Sep 30, 2011 9:32 am ]
Post subject:  I showed her my, funniness, seriousnes but whats wrong?
In college yesterday I pretty much displayed my funniness made the whole class laugh several times, and talked on a serious level with people btw this class is new to me so I don't know anyone it. One of the girls guy friends said to me something about her complimenting me or some-shit so I asked her in front of the whole class "do you think I', cute" she makes a cute face and says yeah and so I compliment her back. After the lesson again in front of the whole class I asked her that I wanted to talk to her and that she can bring anyone with her she got all shy and hid behind her friend and I walked off says "its ok"

I need help what should I do the next time I see her? and is it over? did I embarrass her :O what should I do?

She's 16 btw and Im in college, I'm 17 so none of that mature stuff please xD
Author:  Mr-Rev [ Fri Sep 30, 2011 4:00 pm ]
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Some girls are just shy like that, especially at that age, you won't have scared her off or anything but she just won't be able to match your confidence, get some isolation going and talk to her normally for a bit, if she is already attracted to you, almost anything you do or say to her she will love as long as you don't act a complete a-hole.
Author:  supmag [ Fri Sep 30, 2011 4:38 pm ]
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Thanks man, it does seem like she find excuses just to look at me and with the help of others gets to talk to me, do you think she'll even be able to initiate eye contact any more and how should I play of what happened?
Author:  Mr-Rev [ Fri Sep 30, 2011 6:21 pm ]
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With the shy ones you just have to take it slow, really need to build that comfort level with her, talk when you can passing in the hall, even if it's simply, hey how you doin? She replies, you say thats good and move on, she's got to get used to your company and communication with you, everytime you make eye contact give a little smile and nod or something, stop the seduction for a little while and just make her view you as a nice guy she doesn't have to be so shy around. Then once you can see her and call out her name and she will stop to chat with you, that's when you start applying some game.
Author:  supmag [ Fri Sep 30, 2011 8:14 pm ]
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Hmm, thanks allot man ;D I don't know why people say women in united kingdom are stuck up I mean I have only been rejected once in my whole life!
Author:  Au Naturel [ Wed Oct 12, 2011 11:31 am ]
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Hmm, thanks allot man ;D I don't know why people say women in united kingdom are stuck up I mean I have only been rejected once in my whole life!
I agree bro, I think English chicks are the opposite of stuck up, most of them are mad easy.
Author:  adaption [ Thu Oct 20, 2011 2:26 am ]
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eh id say shes probably shy so shes not used to being put on the spot like that, it tends to put alot of pressure on her when you put your conversation out in front of a crowd of people and shes expected to give a direct answer, like mr-rev said get her in isolation, also i wouldnt say that "displaying your funniness" is what a womans attracted to, if that wasthe case then comedians would be getting laid like crazy lol, humor displays that your able to break up social tensionbeacuse whens shes laughing it breaks up those akward first moments of a conversation and the ability to handle that social tension is attractive, based on what youve said you might have put some pressure on her but no big deal just ask her if it seemed as if you put her on the spot and then youl know, then banter and flirt a little bit to her, not necessarly in front of alot of people but more as between the two of you so theres not as mutch social pressure on her.
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