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Author:  sh0ckwave [ Mon Aug 29, 2011 10:37 pm ]
Post subject:  Fix your conversation problems with this post Part 2
Questions are good! and they are totally ok at any stage of the interaction, all the old pua myths that questions are bad are totally untrue.

So, the two types of questions you will be dealing with here, are

Scripted questions, such as qualification questions

Curiosity questions

Scripted questions are questions designed to move the interaction in the direction you want it to go, all qualification questions fit into this, you should have a backing conversation/story ready to transition into when you ask these questions.

When I ask a qualification question like "what do you want to be" I know that even if she gives a bad answer like "I don't know" I have somewhere to take it, you relate it back to yourself and keep the conversation moving with more questions/stories etc etc

E.g.

You: What do you want to be?

Her: I want to be.../Don't know

You: Yeah, I'm trying to... at the minute because... so do you think you will be able to...

This is where curiosity questions come in, these should be in the moment, if you are present in the conversation you will naturally be curious about things she is talking about, just don't ask question after question without relating back to your experiences and adding to the conversation.

Scripted questions examples are

"Are you having a good night?"

"How do you guys know each other?"

"So what do you do when you’re not hanging out at (name venue)?”

"What do you want to be?"

Curiousity questions examples are

Why...

What...

Do you think that...

Is it/is that like...

In the next post I'll show you how to put all of this together including the first part to make a basic conversational stack, I will add two stacks from top PUAs and break them down.
Author:  skills360 [ Tue Aug 30, 2011 7:51 pm ]
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You know how i solve my convo. problems i do not talk, i just escalate...In my opinion the less you talk the better.
Author:  sh0ckwave [ Tue Aug 30, 2011 8:20 pm ]
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That may work for you but like you said you still have "problems" with conversation, I don't, this post is for the guys out there with conversational problems, the ones you see posting up things like "help, I don't know what to say" not a master such as urself... and if a girl comes along I can't just grab and go all super vin diesel pua on at least I'll have the skill set to fill in those long silences with fun conversation till I get her to where I can bang her.

Whats better? being able to fit yourself to any situation or spend most of the night trying to find a girl in the right situation to man handle, and what about us guys who don't dance? um?

There is a time and place for everything please don't be so broad minded, we're not all you ya know :D
Author:  skills360 [ Tue Aug 30, 2011 10:34 pm ]
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That may work for you but like you said you still have "problems" with conversation, I don't, this post is for the guys out there with conversational problems, the ones you see posting up things like "help, I don't know what to say" not a master such as urself... and if a girl comes along I can't just grab and go all super vin diesel pua on at least I'll have the skill set to fill in those long silences with fun conversation till I get her to where I can bang her.

Whats better? being able to fit yourself to any situation or spend most of the night trying to find a girl in the right situation to man handle, and what about us guys who don't dance? um?

There is a time and place for everything please don't be so broad minded, we're not all you ya know :D

got you my bad!
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