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Author:  SeductMe [ Thu Aug 25, 2011 12:30 pm ]
Post subject:  My first sexualizing attempt, fails?
After role playing married couple.
HB: we should not get together :p
Me: I know, i divorced you.
HB: And the kids? :o
Me: did we had kids? i mean i really got my precautions!
HB: :o you go it seriously? what am i doing?! (jeez i didnt excpect that reaction i didnt even mention condoms by name lol)
Me: I didn't took it seriously, i know i don't have kids! (haha i dnt know how did i get this idea)
HB: hahaha, what's with the precaution thing? Oo
Me: did you took it seriously?
HB: hell no, why would i.
Me: then why you're acting like this?
HB: ehh
.....
HB: blablabla (sex joke)

i really don't know what really happened here, and YES she's a virgin.
Is she reacting that way first to not appear as easy slut? or was it because she hadn't enough attraction for me.?
Author:  Slip n Slide [ Fri Aug 26, 2011 2:31 am ]
Post subject:  Re: My first sexualizing attempt, fails?
Quote:
After role playing married couple.
HB: we should not get together :p
Me: I know, i divorced you.
HB: And the kids? :o
Me: did we had kids? i mean i really got my precautions!
HB: :o you go it seriously? what am i doing?! (jeez i didnt excpect that reaction i didnt even mention condoms by name lol)
Me: I didn't took it seriously, i know i don't have kids! (haha i dnt know how did i get this idea)
HB: hahaha, what's with the precaution thing? Oo
Me: did you took it seriously?
HB: hell no, why would i.
Me: then why you're acting like this?
HB: ehh
.....
HB: blablabla (sex joke)

i really don't know what really happened here, and YES she's a virgin.
Is she reacting that way first to not appear as easy slut? or was it because she hadn't enough attraction for me.?
I think you lost it at "did we have kids?"

Playfulness is like improv, the fundamental phrase is "Yes, and..." She started it with "Yes, we're divorced, and we have kids."
You should have accepted her assertion and continued forward. "You're keeping the kids, I have too much of a rock star lifestyle."

And anytime things get awkward, shake it off and move on to a different conversation! If she's uncomfortable with something, why stay on that topic?
Author:  SeductMe [ Fri Aug 26, 2011 5:10 am ]
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Thank You Slip n Slide for your helpfull reply, So basically she thought it was serious cuz i denied the "kids" thing. I had to, because it was the only way that moment to sexualize it. but never thought she gonna see it like that.
Author:  Don Draper [ Fri Aug 26, 2011 2:24 pm ]
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It is a fantasy. Don't attempt to induce reality in it.

She's not that comfortable with including kids in jokes, remember that point for the future.

Now, marriage is no one's SEXUAL fantasy. Don't kid yourself.
Author:  Slip n Slide [ Sat Aug 27, 2011 1:03 am ]
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Now, marriage is no one's SEXUAL fantasy. Don't kid yourself.
YESSSSS. Marriage roleplays are great for rapport and future pacing, but it's nothing sexual. Be sexual honestly, don't hide it in a joke (or if you do, make it a thin covering).
Author:  SeductMe [ Sun Aug 28, 2011 5:08 am ]
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Be sexual honestly, don't hide it in a joke (or if you do, make it a thin covering).
Harder to do then said. she is sharing status on facebook like:
"find a guy that want your heart, not your body"
and here in Tunisia, society and religion made sex a HUGE taboo.

sometimes i think it's just me, and AFC thinking. other times i think it's just different from US and some european coutries.

i'm not saying that every guy is a virgin, but if a girl looses her virginity before marriage it's a huge shame on her and her family!

being the only 20yo guy with my own apartment led may guys asking me to bring girls, and 90% of them, just to makeout.
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