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Author:  Nukka [ Tue Aug 02, 2011 4:52 pm ]
Post subject:  i need mid-game advice for college
im attending college in less than a month and im trying to get as much advice as possible on how to game college girls. i know that people say its the absolute easiest place to get pussy but i have terrible mid-game. i never know what to talk about although im not shy at using kino. what should my mentality be when im talking to a girl? all i keep thinkin about is how im gonna get her to put out.
Author:  Jerry Green [ Tue Aug 02, 2011 7:55 pm ]
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Hey bro,

I can't give you any simple answers as college / university game is so much different than club game or cold approach game. The main thing I would suggest is read up on social circle game (through the mystery method or mystery method interview series) because there are large parallels that can be drawn between social circle game and college game.

Also, I would suggest not using any canned material or try to avoid using canned material if you can. The problem with college / university is that social circles tend to overlap quite often, so while you may be gaming girl A (at one point in time), she may know girl B who knows girl C and by the time you get to C, she has already heard about your shit from girl A.

Currently I am making a sort of guide for university / college game that I personally have followed throughout my past 3 years of experience. It should be ready before school starts to keep checking for that and hopefully it will help
Author:  VietnameseProdigy [ Tue Aug 02, 2011 8:30 pm ]
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Bro just be yourself, that's the best advice.

If I was in your situation I would just fluff talk with her. What classes are you taking? Major? Build up your convos as that
Author:  OreSama [ Tue Aug 02, 2011 9:11 pm ]
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In the same position as you. Lately I've been trying to eliminate so inner game and AA. Then learning Mid-game, even NLP. Opening should be as simple as saying, "Hi I'm meeting new people" or Something like that.

Within that remaining month, Go out to a mall you're unlikely to know anyone, and do a newbie mission. Like Say Hi.

Also Def agree that canned material would not work...

Try reading the College game Thread
Author:  Nukka [ Wed Aug 03, 2011 5:52 am ]
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thanks dudes. and i wouldnt use canned material anyways ive seen it fail or have drawbacks almost all the time. plus its kinda cheesy and girls can tell easily.

being myself is hard when all i think about is pussy lol usually when i try to talk about things like what classes she has or something like that the conversation gets boring or doesnt escalate enough for me to kino and kiss
Author:  Slip n Slide [ Wed Aug 03, 2011 6:13 pm ]
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thanks dudes. and i wouldnt use canned material anyways ive seen it fail or have drawbacks almost all the time. plus its kinda cheesy and girls can tell easily.

being myself is hard when all i think about is pussy lol usually when i try to talk about things like what classes she has or something like that the conversation gets boring or doesnt escalate enough for me to kino and kiss
The reason is that you're trying to think of questions. As soon as you start doing that you aren't paying full attention to what she says.

Make your goal in the beginning to figure out her values a little bit. With that goal in mind you have some motivation to ask some interesting questions. Not necessarily profound, but something that gets her talking about herself and her emotions. LISTEN WHEN SHE TALKS. She'll give you something to say, you just need to be listening to be sure you don't miss it. Try it out and trust your brain to think of something at the right time.
Author:  BigRyana [ Wed Aug 03, 2011 7:03 pm ]
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College game can be very easy, or nearly impossible. This depends on a lot of factors. I don't do much bar/club game, I have always been a day guy. This made college the perfect place for me. How I did it: Get to class early and watch everyone enter the first day. Second day, show up a little late and sit by attractive girl you spotted day before. Opening is fairly simple, I usually ask a question regarding class to break the ice. Do this a few times (assuming the girl sits in roughly the same spot as before, they usually do) and then when you have an exam coming up, invite her to "study" with you. I have used this (or a variation) multiple times, it hasn't failed. Why? Because you build report over a few day period so you don't come across as creepy or needy. If she is not interested, it will come across rather quickly.
Author:  Nukka [ Wed Aug 03, 2011 10:51 pm ]
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yea that makes sense guys.good new is i talked to a few girls that are going to my college over facebook since i didnt start yet to get a feel of what to expect. usually im too shy to game on facebook but now i realize how much easier it is. anyway thnx for the advice guys
Author:  Double Vision [ Fri Aug 05, 2011 12:52 am ]
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College game can be very easy, or nearly impossible. This depends on a lot of factors. I don't do much bar/club game, I have always been a day guy. This made college the perfect place for me. How I did it: Get to class early and watch everyone enter the first day. Second day, show up a little late and sit by attractive girl you spotted day before. Opening is fairly simple, I usually ask a question regarding class to break the ice. Do this a few times (assuming the girl sits in roughly the same spot as before, they usually do) and then when you have an exam coming up, invite her to "study" with you. I have used this (or a variation) multiple times, it hasn't failed. Why? Because you build report over a few day period so you don't come across as creepy or needy. If she is not interested, it will come across rather quickly.
Agreed college game can be really easy, especially if you have the confidence most lack during the first set of classes. My approach is a little different but very similar.

I show up to class on the first day right before it starts but leaving it long enough so that people have gone and sat down (rather than waiting for the next class like BigRyana does, I take advantage of the first one because thats before anyone knows anyone, most of the time girls are happy not being loners and to chat to someone),

I walk in smile at the first attractive girl I see sitting alone and say "is this (class name)", its been three years, I'm on my last semester and i have gotten the exact same reaction every time = a laugh, followed conformation I'm in the right class, half the time she will get the conversation going after I have opened with that simple line. If not then I simply start talking about the class or her degree or something college related to open up the conversation and go from there. I think one of the reasons It works so well is I read body language quickly as soon as I walk in.

Trick is you want to set yourself out as the social, friendly guy from day one. That way your not some creep hitting on the hot girls, your just a friendly guy who knows everyone and just happens to date the hot girls. Plus at uni especially it helps to have smart friends, so don't discriminate, this is a long term approach, talk to the dorky shy girl over the semester because she will help your grades, guarantee it, she will help you come across as friendly to other girls and chances are half the time she has hot friends.

I'll chat to the girl I sat next too to build comfort but during or after class I'll try to talk to someone else. During the next class I'll get there a little earlier and sit next to someone else I havent met that is alone and start a convo and when the other people I met in the previous days class come in I wave and they will 90% of the time come sit next to us, and I will make the introductions. When you have developed a group of friends its easy to stick with them but don't fall for it, start conversations with other people, you sound like you could work on that aspect of your game, people are friendly at collage, talk to someone new every day.

I have also found People are always happy to make friends at the start of classes before they know anyone, I try to approach it in a way that gives me plenty of options down the track.

By the end of semester you should have created an awesome network of friends in each of your class, a lot of them connected through you.

Thats how I approach it anyway.
Author:  Octave [ Sat Aug 13, 2011 2:28 am ]
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when you get to your dorm for move in day, grab your roommate and go around the building introducing yourself to EVERYONE. both girls and guys. have a quick little intro with everyone. The point it to make as many good first impressions as possible. Also by having introduced yourself to everyone, people will see you always dapping people up or hugging other girls and wonder how your so popular... best advice i got for college
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