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Author:  Jibe1111 [ Mon Jul 18, 2011 8:35 am ]
Post subject:  Eye contact

I´m naturally shy and I don´t naturally make eye contact easilly. When I realized how important this could be, I forced myself to do it. Sometimes I feel that my eye contact doesn´t make feel the girls conforatble because they can feel I´m not natural. Most of the time I look at the right eye of the girls, I can´t look at the two eyes at the same time. Then I can feel that she is not conforatble with the way I look at her, then I lower my eyes and I become self concious. Before I can do anything, we both sence I kind of disconnection between us, and it blows my chances away. I would like to know if some of you faced the same issue and if you could find the right state of mind to be. Thank you in advance, JB

Author:  Sparroww [ Mon Jul 18, 2011 4:49 pm ]
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This was always a big deal with me. Before I got into PUA I never held eye contact with people. It's just something you have to force yourself to do, it's uncomfortable at first, but after a while you get used to it. Also, I don't think it's possible to look at both eyes at once, so don't worry about that, just pick one. :P

Make sure you don't have a super serious or depressed look on your face while making eye contact, look like you are having fun, smile, or give a flirty little smirk. Maybe pull one of these :wink:

Also, don't stare, because this is always creepy :shock:

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