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Author:  Adept [ Tue Jul 05, 2011 10:27 pm ]
Post subject:  Girl opened me but did I fuck it up?

Okay, so there's this HB8 I met at a party. We danced for a while but I never managed to get her number or really even talk to her. However, I did manage to get a name and her facebook. Today I saw her at the store she works at and she opened me but right in the middle of the conversation a co-worker of mine opened me, also an HB8 and I really needed to talk to her about work (and hit on her) so without really saying much, I walked over to the other girl and struck up a conversation.

Now, the thing is, BOTH girls saw me talking to the other (social proof). However, I'm worried I fucked up my game with the inadvertent rudeness (I was nervous as I was there for a job interview). Should I apologize to the other girl, chat her up, and try for a #close?

Also, what could I have done with the interruption from the other girl?

Author:  Brian Bond [ Tue Jul 05, 2011 11:31 pm ]
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So you went to this new girl's job for a job interview, she saw you, recognized you and opened you, correct? what did you guys talk about. What place is it?
Your friend interrupted you with what porpuse? to say hi, to inform you about something? what did you guys talk about?
Also, how did you excuse yourself form the HB8 when you moved to your friend?
sorry... your description was kind broad... hard to give advice.

Author:  Adept [ Wed Jul 06, 2011 3:45 am ]
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So you went to this new girl's job for a job interview, she saw you, recognized you and opened you, correct? what did you guys talk about. What place is it?
Your friend interrupted you with what porpuse? to say hi, to inform you about something? what did you guys talk about?
Also, how did you excuse yourself form the HB8 when you moved to your friend?
sorry... your description was kind broad... hard to give advice.
She works at Von's. We had just gotten past the whole "Hi, what's up?" part of the conversation and then got interrupted. I didn't really I just kind of turned and walked away.

Author:  Brian Bond [ Wed Jul 06, 2011 4:27 am ]
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next time you see her (or send her a message on fb) just open by saying: "soo... i heard you are the person i have to talk to to get an employee discount!" and build up from there. idk exacly what your game is, but i go with the cocky/funny style.

Author:  Kontrol [ Wed Jul 06, 2011 8:10 am ]
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^^^ lol I love this!

Dude don't make a big deal of this, it's all good. You got social proof and built some attraction with the girl you ditched. Defenitly don't apologize for anything, next time you talk to her talk normal like nothin happened. Don't run around worrying if you offend someone.

Author:  Adept [ Wed Jul 06, 2011 3:12 pm ]
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^^^ lol I love this!

Dude don't make a big deal of this, it's all good. You got social proof and built some attraction with the girl you ditched. Defenitly don't apologize for anything, next time you talk to her talk normal like nothin happened. Don't run around worrying if you offend someone.
It tripped me out a little because I've never really been in the situation where two girls are trying to get my attention AT ONCE. Then I realized the whole social proof scenario and it just made things (for me) that much more awesome. Thanks for the info dudes!

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