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| Author: | disc.inc. [ Mon Jul 04, 2011 2:26 pm ] |
| Post subject: | The Shy Girl |
Hello, all. So, I'm new to the game, but I've learned a lot, and have had some seriously positive results. The target: she is SUPER shy, super introverted, and naturally flaky (none of which phase me because that's what I'm looking for). She is named V. Me: I am a shyguy (but learning to use it to my advantage), and introverted. I'm a natural lover who doesn't break hearts; however, I don't mind driving one nuts. Sometimes, I tend to be overly analytical about situations when I should just flow instead. Background/The Situation: I've known her for about a year. During that time, my gameplay was very weak, and I ended up getting rejected twice by her – at which point I just cut my losses and and tried to move on. Normally, I can drop an interest with pretty much little trouble, but V. has been a special case. It seems that every time she would come around she would start to drive me nuts. Recently, however, she has warmed up to me. I'm not sure what I did, but I think it probably has to do with giving her the impression that I was no longer interested, or whatever. Since her warming up, we've had two make-out sessions – each one more intense than the last. I have chosen the slow-approach with her, because it's probably what she is more receptive to, and I do like her enough to make her mine.e She and I had plans yesterday for dinner and a movie, but she had to call it off and texted: "I'm gonna pass on the movie tonight. I should catch ya up later tho on what's been happenin' in my brain. A lot happened in there in the past couple days. Good luck studying, 'n take it easy at the same time : ) " She has flaked before, and it never phase me. At this point, however, I felt I might be treading on shaky grounds so I (more or less) told her that I would hit her up when I was done studying so she could "catch me up." When I did end up speaking to her, it did not seem like anything was up, though she didn't exactly get to catch me up on what was going on. We had a nice little conversation, and I was cool/casual. The conversation was cut short by her dogs barking (= someone at the door). She said she'd call me back a bit later. I didn't sweat it, and went along my way for the day. Later in the evening (several hours later) she texted, "Hey, sorry for the lack of communication. Gonna just take it easy at home for today." I chose not to ice her on this one, and responded with, "Yo, your flakiness doesn't really phase me. I understand first-hand that introverts need more space than most. Though, you gotta make it up to me again:) In any case, it sounds like some shit went down this weekend. Are you okay?" Here, she responds, "Yeah, I'm okay. I promise :O) Thank you! This just about brings everything up to speed on the situation. Everything, at first glance, tends to be right in line with our interactions over the past year – a lot of push/pull. Though, I could just be stupid, or over-thinking things. -How would you all deal with something like this? -Am I missing something here? -How can I drive HER more insane? (here, I've already done my own fair share of icing with very positive results). -Etc. Keep in mind that as of right now I have a second option aside from her, but V is the one I would MUCH RATHER shoot for. There is mental/physical chemistry aside from the other girl who is just eye-candy. Thanks, gents. |
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