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Author:  jayk7 [ Thu Jun 30, 2011 12:26 am ]
Post subject:  PLEASE HELP! Girl cold towards me but nice to my friends ...

There's a bar I play at, (guitarist and singer), and one of the barmaids is cute. I've been going most wednesdays for about 7 weeks, this girl has worked about 4 of them, and has been fairly cold and dismissive towards me from the beginning but nice and friendly to my friends. I've always been polite and friendly and a tiny bit flirty. When my friends aren't around she smiles and seems a bit shy but when they are she get's cold again!

For example tonight she had my friend's drink brought over but 'forgot' mine.

No idea what to do, how do i go about opening her up a bit!?

Thanks.

Author:  0uch [ Thu Jun 30, 2011 9:54 pm ]
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I had a girl acting like that towards me. I just kept a positive frame when
I talk to her.

Next thing you know, she gets my number somehow and hits me up to have sex.

Author:  anthonypham [ Fri Jul 01, 2011 3:47 pm ]
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She digs you :)

Probably she is no HB8 or up, but rather a HB7.

She likes you, but is insecure and very afraid of rejection. Therefore she acts strangely, hoping you will start a conversation with her.

But be nice to her, a bit negging, and you will see she will be way more nicer to you!

Author:  jayk7 [ Fri Jul 01, 2011 8:27 pm ]
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So I definitely shouldn't freeze her out?

In terms of conversation what would be a good way to make her smile and relax a little bit??

Author:  anthonypham [ Sat Jul 02, 2011 12:39 am ]
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So I definitely shouldn't freeze her out?

In terms of conversation what would be a good way to make her smile and relax a little bit??
haha, not yet my friend :) By 'ignoring you' she was actually opening you indirectly. I think she is a shy girl.

Open her, and you will see she will be very responsive. Neg her a bit, and you will see that actually she is a nice girl :)

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