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Author:  LordDante [ Tue Jun 28, 2011 4:44 am ]
Post subject:  What do you do when she negs or something else?
I already made her feel comfortable around me. I'm trying to build the attraction part to seduce her.
Every time she comes and talks to me, she acts tough and tries to neg me, or maybe i don't really understand her bullshit. :shock:
For example.
well
I was working out in the gym.
she was doing shadows with the boxing instructor.
She sees me and talks to me.
She-"hey Whats sup?"
me-"hey how are you, I'm doing my work out"
She-"Did you saw me doing shadows, I'm really exhausted"
me-"yeah, you are pretty good."
She-"WT F, are you going to cry now, damn!" - she doesn't laugh and looks me straight in the eye without blinking.

I'm clueless on how to act here. :?

It seems my response was like mediocre.
me-"Yeah right."- slowly and with a little smirk in my mouth.
She goes silent and we just stare to each other, i feel the tension but she just turns around after like 10 seconds and goes.
How do you adapt to her bullshit.

Afterwards she just stays in her sit, like 10 meters from me and she keeps staring at me.
I just don't know how to get her to go out with me, every time i try, she does some bullshit like that.
Thanks in advance
LD.
:o
Author:  OreSama [ Tue Jun 28, 2011 6:41 am ]
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Sounds like some sort of shit test imo. Read you could've just shrugged and started another thread.

Also it seemed like she controlled the frame a bit. Saying something C&F could also be another route.
Author:  snillaheart [ Tue Jun 28, 2011 7:06 am ]
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Quote:
She-"Did you saw me doing shadows, I'm really exhausted"
me-"yeah, you are pretty good."
She-"WT F, are you going to cry now, damn!" - she doesn't laugh and looks me straight in the eye without blinking.
your line in this quote sucks, why would you say that she was just working out so what big deal, you shouldve been like: yeah good job on that *high five* now work your butt off for like 20 more min and you be fine fo today(smile)

so pretty much you couldve done 2 things here, neg her on "im really exhausted" she sounds like shes looking for validation and you couldve made that obvious: good job! you want an award or somethin(smile) OR you couldve push/pulled.

you validated her like an afc and shes testing you every which way thats why you get so much bullshit from this chick and it doesnt look so good she prolly lbjf'd you or nexted you but there's always hope man besides she wants attention anyway.

her line after your line in the quote is an obvious shit test and the way you can pass shit tests is just agree with whatever she says: "yeah i am gonna cry cause i actually like my girls not so sweaty but i guess youre cool(smile)"
Author:  LordDante [ Tue Jun 28, 2011 7:11 pm ]
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Thanks for the responses.
Every-time she comes to where i am she tries to correct something on my routine.
The main problem i have is that i think i have to much passive value.
Every single time i have tried to neg a hot girl, she just crumbles and hates me forever.
I'm a Doctor-specialist (Radiologist). I'm 32 years old.
I have a six pack after 8 months in the gym and I'm fairly muscular (5ยด9 with 175lbs and 9% of fat)
I try to dress pretty well.
I groom myself almost like a metro sexual guy.
I have my own small business (a retail shop).
All of the girls in the gym hit on me. I mean I'm having sex with 1 different girl (a new one) every month besides my exclusives.
So cocky and funny i presume its the way to go. I think she is the one for me. O MG! oneitis.
I really want this girl. :cry:
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