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Author:  newbie6671 [ Sun Jun 26, 2011 2:31 pm ]
Post subject:  Meant a girl and the gym and opened but what now.
I meant a girl at the gym. It was during a cycle class. After the class was over I summoned the courage to go up to the girl and strike up a conversation. She has this sexy sleeve tattoo. So after saying hi I said BTW I think your sleeve is awesome and we talked about that a little then we talked about the classes offered at the gym and which ones we like. I left by shaking her hand and saying I hope to see her around the gym again and she said she’s there every day. The next time I saw her at the cycle class she never looked my way or waved at me, I’m not sure if she knew if I was there or not though. She left the class early and I stayed to finish the class. After the class was over I figured I’d get some weight lifting in and I found that that’s what she was doing after she left the class. So I picked a machine somewhat close to where she was and after she finished her last machine she picked a machine across from the one I was on I’m not sure if that was on purpose or not. So I was looking in her direction but not at her to wait until see looked at me and then after she looked at me I smiled and waved and she smiled back but it seemed like it was really weird but maybe that was all in my head, and that was it and she walked away. So I need to know if…

A) Did I fuck this up and do you think I became a needy weirdo in her eyes and if so can and how do I fix that.

And…

B) What should I do the next time I see her in the gym to get a #Close or a date.
Author:  7-Up [ Sun Jun 26, 2011 2:57 pm ]
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Invite her to some close eat-place. Tell her you gotta restore energy idk... and you want to know more about her.
Author:  tenonine [ Sun Jun 26, 2011 4:56 pm ]
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Sorry, but I think this was one has stalled out. If you had to "summon the courage" to talk to her, my guess is that you seemed very nervous, which makes her nervous. And she probably sensed that you were watching her out of the corner of your eye in cycling class. Women have a sixth sense for this sort of thing, and it creeps them out.

Gyms are a kinda tough venue, but the next time you see a hot girl there, make a remark to her as you're passing, then stop and look over your shoulder to catch her reply. It's a good false time constraint, and then you've established an excuse later in the workout to say, "I'm Bill, by the way," and talk about what her workout regimen is (to recommend to your sister?) or what she's listening to on her iPod. If you have a halfway decent conversation you can then say, "I've gotta get back to my workout, but maybe we can talk when I have more time. What's your number?"

I know it takes some discipline, but DO NOT monitor a woman out of the corner of your eye. Don't even look at her unless it's in the natural social flow (e.g. You're passing in the hall.) If I were you, I'd forget about the girl with the sleeve.
Author:  anthonypham [ Sat Jul 02, 2011 12:49 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Meant a girl and the gym and opened but what now.
Quote:

A) Did I fuck this up and do you think I became a needy weirdo in her eyes and if so can and how do I fix that.

And…

B) What should I do the next time I see her in the gym to get a #Close or a date.
A> Nothing happened. You are overthinking right now. She probably already forgot this the same day :)

B> Currently you are just someone from the gym. Escalate. Depending on the situation, and how comfortable you feel [your judgement], you have to ask her out.

If you want to play safe:
Ask her where she usually goes, and tell her to meet up with you and your friends and that she should bring her friends. That night you isolate with her, and game her.

If you are bold, ask her out:
Do your thing, and you are in or out!
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