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Author:  GiianniR [ Sun Jun 19, 2011 4:10 pm ]
Post subject:  having problems Isolating.
So I got attraction build up in the group and with my target but then I don't really know when and how to isolate, It's something that just seems to naturaly happen when it does, but when it doesn't I don't really know how to force it, and the classic Mystery way of, "hey me and your friend like eachother, is it ok if I borrow her?"
just seems weird to me.

Any tips that can help?

Thanks !!

Gianni.
Author:  YouWish99 [ Sun Jun 19, 2011 5:00 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: having problems Isolating.
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So I got attraction build up in the group and with my target but then I don't really know when and how to isolate, It's something that just seems to naturaly happen when it does, but when it doesn't I don't really know how to force it, and the classic Mystery way of, "hey me and your friend like eachother, is it ok if I borrow her?"
just seems weird to me.

Any tips that can help?

Thanks !!

Gianni.
Don't bother. Mini-isolate instead. You don't have to go anywhere or worry about having to come up with something to say.
Author:  GiianniR [ Sun Jun 19, 2011 6:26 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: having problems Isolating.
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So I got attraction build up in the group and with my target but then I don't really know when and how to isolate, It's something that just seems to naturaly happen when it does, but when it doesn't I don't really know how to force it, and the classic Mystery way of, "hey me and your friend like eachother, is it ok if I borrow her?"
just seems weird to me.

Any tips that can help?

Thanks !!

Gianni.
Don't bother. Mini-isolate instead. You don't have to go anywhere or worry about having to come up with something to say.
Yhea, how do you go from having a conversation with a full group and then with just 1 girl.

anyways, already, thank you ;)
Author:  YouWish99 [ Mon Jun 20, 2011 9:07 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: having problems Isolating.
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So I got attraction build up in the group and with my target but then I don't really know when and how to isolate, It's something that just seems to naturaly happen when it does, but when it doesn't I don't really know how to force it, and the classic Mystery way of, "hey me and your friend like eachother, is it ok if I borrow her?"
just seems weird to me.

Any tips that can help?

Thanks !!

Gianni.
Don't bother. Mini-isolate instead. You don't have to go anywhere or worry about having to come up with something to say.
Yhea, how do you go from having a conversation with a full group and then with just 1 girl.

anyways, already, thank you ;)
Why are you having a conversation with a whole group? You should be having a conversation with (usually) one person and simply including the other people.

I think you're confusing progression, correct me if I'm wrong, but you're thinking that you have to isolate before you get her to be comfortable around you. This isn't the case. She should be comfortable with you first and then through isolation you strengthen this bond.

With mini-isolation all you're doing is using your body language and half-turn pivots to give the perception of isolation without going anywhere. It also breaks up sight lines so her friends will be unable to eye code her if they get bored.

Of course this assumes you're already talking to her about something in particular and she's somewhat comfortable with your touch already.

The pivot itself is a transition.

Now, a mini-isolation can turn into full isolation if her friends see she is really into you and they disappear on their own, but usually you've bought yourself 5 or 10 minutes. This should be more than enough time to at the very least get her number.
Author:  mavenspeermethod [ Mon Jun 20, 2011 9:51 pm ]
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Mini isolation is always a good option. As stated by other you just move the girl a little at a time and get her back to the group. if you would like to go for more of an isolation you can ask the groupto barrow the friend. you can also just say i want to show you something cool. it doesn't matter what. the point is you move the girl even a few feet. isn't this wood for the bar awesome. i would of gone with a fish tank. now talking about an idea that doesn't exist and in isolation. quick not one reason to ask group may be a girls night out or wedding party. if they are there for someone else it is a good idea to get that persons permission, or just mini isolate. hope this helps.

maven
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