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Author:	hayhay86 [ Wed Jun 01, 2011 12:39 am ]
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I really think this girl is just leading me on. She wants me to hang with her at her apt every night we kiss kino bullshit I neg her she likes it. Last night I got tired of it and told her that if she wants a relationship with me that we really need to take it to the next level or I'm just going to stop talking to her all together. She responded with ok and I left.. she has said that she really likes me and I'm sure she does but she thinks all I want is. A piece of ass. Is it really over??? I could have Proble got her but there is a lot of distractions at her apt. Her kid and a roommate with a kid. She won't go out for drinks with me but goes out and drinks without me... I'm thinking I should next her but there's a lot for me to gain. Her daddy has lots of money. I think I am letting her have too much control over the situation. Next or not to next?

Author:	Chronos [ Wed Jun 01, 2011 12:00 pm ]
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I personally think you did the wrong thing by saying that she needed to take it to the next level. She clearly likes you if, as you say, shes inviting you round every night. I dont know if you went round everynight, however, i would have declined some of those offers from her just to make it seem like you had more important things to do and if she wanted your attention, she would have to work harder than that. Therefore, if she was going to try and work harder for your attention, when you go round to hers you may get more out of it. Its seems as though she has a strong LMR, which you will you to work on to break down. Im not the best person to speak to about it, but from experience, freeze out has worked 90% of the time for me. Bottom line is that you need to get back on top and lead her, not the other way round.

Author:	Technophobe [ Wed Jun 01, 2011 12:44 pm ]
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I think you should have consulted the forum before doing anything. I know i am only a noob at this at the moment but this seems like a great place for advice .

Author:	hayhay86 [ Wed Jun 01, 2011 1:26 pm ]
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I didn't talk to her for a day n a half and she straight asked me if I still wanted what I had been wanting. I told her that I want a woman instead of a little girl that likes to play games. She denied playing games and being a little girl then I told her that I would have to think about it. Then she said who is playing game NOW?? And I should od told her that I was serious but I thought she was actually through playing stupid games so I told her its just my turn now. Which i know I screwed that up but it was still ok after that. And we Hung out again with a cuddle session that was the best night I actually got to finger her. But the next night she didn't let me get that close. She is a red head... I know they are different. Im in freeze out mode right now because I got sick n tired of goin over there and not getting any pussy! One time she made up an excuse where she had to leave right now and she said she would call .me back later that night. But i told her dont bother me any more. She was mad at me right and the next day I saw her. She acted like she was mad at me for about 10 seconds I told her that I just jumped to conclusions and she melted in my arms. Just turned to butter. Clearly ioi she said she likes me so much that after she sees me she just can't b mad at me any more. But she doesn'want to give me any pussy!! I tried asking her to get a hotel I played with her kid I said I like her kid I said I like her. O and she likes to text her ex bf all the time!!

Author:	hayhay86 [ Wed Jun 01, 2011 2:43 pm ]
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I feel like her go to guy when she needs a puck me up. I told her it feels like i am fixing to get friend zoned and I don't like it she said she was not going to.do.that but Idk. One time I left my phone laying on her bed when I went to the restroom and I know she looked at my text messages cuz when I looked at my phone it was on my messages instead of the homepage where I left it. But the top 6 messages were from different girls just regular friends and a couple prospects. I left my phone there on purpose so she could see that she's not the only girl I'm talking to. U got to be sneaky about that one but I pulled it off and it worked great! She also says she is over her ex but every time his name pops up she almost starts crying and I tell her that I'm not going to be the cry on shoulder guy for her.

Author:	Rethnu [ Wed Jun 01, 2011 4:38 pm ]
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Uh, difficult girl, I had a similar one a few weeks ago, I think there are a few different issues with these kind of girls. At first self confidence, I think she's having a low self confidence, that's why she's still trying to draw attention from her Ex-BF, and that#s also the reason why she's needing your attention so badly. The downside is, that as soon as you give attention to a person with low self confidence, that person will loose respect for you, and therefore attraction. Because anybody who respects HER, the girl without value, must be of low value too. Secondly, LMR, I think that's another issue, and I don't think she does this on purpose, so it's not something she could overcome by simply saying "ok, let's have sex". Some girls have a huge genetically anchored LMR, I did some research in various female communities a while ago, and there I've seen girls that complained that they really want to have Sex with their BFs, but simply can't due to some urge fundamental fear, phobia, anxiety, whatever. They were really afraid of loosing their Boyfriends, but simply weren't able to get over their own LMR. I'm not a girl, so I can only guess here, but I think LMR can be really fundamental in a girl, like our male urge to take a look if a hot chick with a nice ass walks by, or the fear of spiders, snakes, etc. How to bypass such a heavy LMR? I have no idea, but I don't think it's possible through pressure, only if you give her lot's of time, but I never made it that far myself, I don't want to wait ages before she puts out.... My advice would be to dump her, with all that time you're investing in her you could find 5 other girls

Author:	hayhay86 [ Wed Jun 01, 2011 5:03 pm ]
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She definitely likes attention. And as soon as I don't give it to her she wants it more. She is a cute girl so getting attention from other guys for her is easy. I think i pretty much made her think that i hate her because she won't put out. But im not going to waste my time on her if she isnt going to put out. I know if she gets drunk and i show up at the righttime I can totally get her. But its going to be almost by accident I'm afraid. I might have to hit on one of her friends to make her jealous is another thing I thought about. But I'm not worrying about it for the time being.

Author:	Rethnu [ Wed Jun 01, 2011 6:17 pm ]
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Well, some girls indeed get drunk to get over their own LMR, so maybe that's a good way for her too. Try to show up with some booze when you meet again

Author:	hayhay86 [ Wed Jun 01, 2011 6:51 pm ]
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She had a bottle of rum there and I made her a drink but she never drank it lol. Ieven tried to take a shower with her but she wouldnt get in there with me !

Author:	Chronos [ Thu Jun 02, 2011 9:53 am ]
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I think the games shes playing are the LMR. As Rethnu said, she has Heavy LMR, which, i'd say is down to a confidence issue, as Rethnu stated. As for the whole thing of you trying to go serious on her. I doubt that will work, her games are her defense, if you try and take that away from her, she simply wont comply with you and will snap against you. Your better off leaving the games where they are. I know you dont like them, but its brings some fun in the 'relationship'. It just depends on whether you think you can break her HLMR down? Alcohol isnt a bad option

Author:	amzar [ Thu Jun 02, 2011 10:28 am ]
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A week isnt too long to wait for sex...trust me...make her feel comfortable around you as she clearly liked you and it will come in good time. She doesnt want to be seen as an object and you were coming on quite strong

Author:	hayhay86 [ Fri Jun 03, 2011 4:26 am ]
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I just talked to my buddy. He picked her up last night n banged her first time he ever met her. He is better at it than I am I guess. I talked to her she told me that I made it obvious that all I wanted was a piece of ass and thats y she wouldn't give me any. Doesn't make sense but girls don't. Ummmm next

Author:	hayhay86 [ Sun Jun 05, 2011 2:02 pm ]
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I'm in the friend zone....hmmm ? I apologized and she said I forgive you "like she's god" then she said we can be friendly but that's it. I told her I guess ill let you be my friend Idk what to do now. It will b fun to try tho

Author:	BushMan [ Sun Jun 05, 2011 2:49 pm ]
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Quote: I'm in the friend zone....hmmm ? I apologized and she said I forgive you "like she's god" then she said we can be friendly but that's it. I told her I guess ill let you be my friend Idk what to do now. It will b fun to try tho You have to give her a good beating! That's what she need.

Author:	tatu [ Mon Jun 06, 2011 3:09 am ]
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My first girlfriend was like that. Very conservative girls might be able to have SNL, but won't give pussy to their boyfriends in less than a month... or even more. The only question is, how much do you love this girl? If you only want someone to fuck regularly, next her. If you like HER and only HER, because no other woman is like her, then shut up and wait. Believe me, she will get bored of the same old kissing and hugging and will gradually let you do other stuff. But... depending on her upbringing it can take more than three months, easily, to have a full fuck.

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