a brilliant post and exactly what i am looking for! been hanging out with this girl recently and although i think i am getting IOIs i do know she has a boyfriend, she said " hes doing well, most guys i get bored with after a couple of months!" so i am thinking if i work on this angle- being around each other so much (they work in same department) how great it must be, how it means they always get spend time together, and how special it must be able to do that with someone you love. (is this bit going to far?) maybe enforce the positive/negative idea by saying how hard i would find it in the same situation- ( probably throw in a few single woman buzz words freedom, independance, individuality) throw in a cheeky comment about her being to much of a distraction.. (hopefully get her to ask the question why doesnt he?).. then seeing how things are looking either close the same night or leave it for a few days before i attempt the close
ok guys so please advise, any thoughts, changes in technique, tips would be greatful.
i have to say (although it does feel wrong) it was quite a fun mental exercise working out how best to exploit the weaknesses in a relationship. does that make me evil?
