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Author:  rubixcuber94 [ Sun May 29, 2011 8:39 pm ]
Post subject:  How to get her to go out with me?

Hi so i was at a concert yesterday and i got talking to this girl she was drunk but i could see she wanted to kiss me becuase she was drunk i didnt want to act on it.. so i talked/used kino for a bit but after a while her friends came over and took her away.. last night i added her on facebook and she accepted, what should i do/say to her now to get her to give me her number and come out with me she lives 15mins from my house so id have to get a bus to see her/shed have to get a bus to see me. Id really love some exact advice on what to say/do to get her to go out with me please help thanks
oh and im 17 and shes 17

Author:  Fender43 [ Sun May 29, 2011 8:48 pm ]
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next her buddy she was drunk...

Author:  MisterRon [ Mon May 30, 2011 3:09 am ]
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Start by doing some RESEARCH..there is plently of material on this site to enable you to start going out with her.


But some ideas are to not act too interested at the start.
Don't come off as needy ever ever.
DHV
and get to know her before asking her to go out, shes a stranger to you and your a stranger to her, plus she was drunk so she probably doesn't remember you too well.

Author:  DaveUrkel (BlackWhitePU) [ Mon May 30, 2011 4:40 am ]
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Both of the advice given above is a little misguided.

There is no need to next her right away just because she was drunk when you met her. Thats crazy. You just need to see where you're at with her. She might remember you and she might not, but theres no point in just assuming that she doesnt remember you just cuz she was drunk.

So, start with just sending her a message on facebook just to see what type of response you get. That will tell where to go from there. So, you can just send her a message like:
"Hey sillyface/bratface (some nickname) I can't believe you said XYZ (referring back to something she said or did at the concert) I'm gonna have to keep my eyes on you :)" OR
"Hey *nickname* It was nice meeting you the other day, you seem fun. Just hope you don't turn out to be a psychoo :P"

Something like that. It doesn't really matter, you just wanna see how well she remembers you and how she's gonna respond to you. If you get ANYTHING back thats somewhat significant, just assume that she's still down and she's still into you.

Then after like one or 2 messages back and forth (no need to drag it out), just say something like:
"Look, facebook is a horrible way to keep in contact, send me your number. If we still like each other on the phone, maybe we'll hangout again"

You can even keep it as simple as "Hey, whats your number"
It depends on the type of responses you're getting from her.


Then call her and set up a date.
Simple. Don't overthink it.

Author:  sylvan [ Sun Jun 05, 2011 5:42 am ]
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you can maybe try something cocky funny like

"you look familiar, were you that drunk girl hitting on me at that _______ concert the other day?"

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