I got 2 questions:
1. Is it a date, or not?
2. How to act on the „date“?
Back-story for question 1:
We're going together to evening-school (I'm 28, she's 21) and like each other. A little while ago we were talking in a group and somehow we talked about me being single. She said, she's sorry to hear, that it didn't work out. 2-3 minutes later she tells us, that she is in a 6-month relationship but hasn't developed any feelings whatsoever. So far nothing of importance.
Last week we chatted on facebook, I don't have a chat-log, but it was like this:
She: Give me your number
Me: , Damn, very quick in getting my number.
She: That's how we women are.
Me: Give me your number, too.
She: ,
Me: Damn, I'm good, I got 2 numbers
She: Yes, but you have to earn the third one
Me: Alright, I'll invite you to a cocktail sometime and then you'll give it to me.
She: yes, all right.
Note: At this time, I wasn't really single (complicated and not important now) and not looking for a date, just 2 friends going out for a drink. For that reason I haven't used any (of the little I know) PU-tactics. Now (actually since Thursday) I am single and Friday I asked her out for that cocktail and she said yes.
Now I was thinking, is this a date? She's very hot (HB9) and very sweet, too! I'm very interested in her, but I don't want to interpret too much. What do you guys think?
2. Since I was in a kind of LTR, I haven't actually used PU-tactics, I just learned some by watching Mystery’s show on MTV „The Pickup Artist“ and some other videos.
The date is on Friday, what do you guys recommend for me to do, to get her? I don't just want to get her into bed, my interest would be a relationship. What basic skills should I learn 'til Friday?
Note: I am pretty alpha, at least in school, where we see each other, I have that status.