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Author:  Lildeadshot [ Sat May 28, 2011 2:41 am ]
Post subject:  She's a toughy, but did i lose her yet?

I met this girl towards the end of the first semester of my junior year (2010). She was very nice, outgoing, a good 7 or 8. We texted alot, (before i ever got into PUA stuff, back when i was a wussy). Now one day we were texting, and she had said to me randomly "i'm a terrible girlfriend and no one likes me." Hell since this was before i knew what i knew now, idk if i'd go for it given the situation, but i asked her out over TEXT.---Lame...But she said yes. Now here's where it got difficult, stay with me

She started ignoring me, i talked to her best friend (a girl) about it and she said that she had totally denied ever saying yes to go out with me. Now i know it was her because a few months later she had said it was because she was trying to be nice, and she kinda liked me, although didn't know me very well. Now about a few months later, i really want her. I have done some Kino, good attraction, i'm great friends with her brother, hell he tells her i bench 250, im funny etc etc. Great help, but just won't bite. He told me she's stubborn, and i'm, wondering if i lost her? I want to know what to do, she didn't text back today but i'm planning on ignoring her next text (if there is one)

Author:  Lildeadshot [ Sat May 28, 2011 2:46 am ]
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Stupid thing wouldnt let me edit so let me continue the thread.

Is ignoring her text a good idea? And she did say whoever she loses her virginity to she wants to be with them forever. Kinda want in on that but idk how to get her that far, shes a sophomore in highschool im a junior in HS, if you have more questions ask away. i was rushed here

Author:  Lildeadshot [ Sat May 28, 2011 2:50 am ]
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If this helps, she's also wanting to be a model, shes very funny but likes rich men. I happen to be from a rich family. So she could be mooching, but if she were, she would have already gone out with me. So im really curious here as to what is up with her, im doing everything right, but she isnt biting. The kino etc etc is mature stuff, and she may not be very mature. I love to text, bad habit, so if you have specific help with that too. I tried the text sticky, she's smart, i used one of those lines in a convo, she said stop looking up lines from the internet.

Author:  Luda [ Sat May 28, 2011 7:54 am ]
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Ey man im not gonna beat around the bush here... My advice is to forget about her, stop indulging in future fantasies of you two and just move on with your life. Just improve your life, talk to other women and stop focusing on her. She's probably not interested and if she is she'll get back to you... So yea i think you should just move on to the other girls who actually like you

Author:  boxerwhoplaysguitar [ Sun May 29, 2011 2:49 am ]
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Sorry man, I agree with Luda.
However, I don't think it is completely hopeless. You probably can date her if you really tried and played your cards right, but it seems your chances are very slim. Your choice, but you might just wanna move on. Anything is possible, but it will take a lot of work, and you cannot do anything lame like asking her out over texting again(not supposed to be an insult, i did that once myself). Anyway, do whatever you want to do, but you are young and should date other women.

Author:  thevibe [ Sun May 29, 2011 3:08 am ]
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another day text her
u can say hey ill pick u up in an hour
shell say what or something
and you said sorry i meant to text another girl
then ignore whatever else she rights till like tommorow or longer

when u do text her back just say hi keep it simple when u talk to her
if she say where where u or who u where with say i had sushi with someone(sushi is a good idea cause it fancy and ur not sayind u had a date or u were eating with ur friends dudes dont spend alot of money on eachother)
shell say something like since when do u like sushi or something about it
you say some one wanted me to tru something new
if she ask were u with a boy or girl u say why does that matter
if she asks who u were with say say someone i met a few days ago(since u only knew this person in a short amount of time shell think it was a date)
never say it was a date or u were just with a friend

Author:  Fender43 [ Sun May 29, 2011 8:01 am ]
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Quote:
another day text her
u can say hey ill pick u up in an hour
shell say what or something
and you said sorry i meant to text another girl
then ignore whatever else she rights till like tommorow or longer

when u do text her back just say hi keep it simple when u talk to her
if she say where where u or who u where with say i had sushi with someone(sushi is a good idea cause it fancy and ur not sayind u had a date or u were eating with ur friends dudes dont spend alot of money on eachother)
shell say something like since when do u like sushi or something about it
you say some one wanted me to tru something new
if she ask were u with a boy or girl u say why does that matter
if she asks who u were with say say someone i met a few days ago(since u only knew this person in a short amount of time shell think it was a date)
never say it was a date or u were just with a friend
Basically what this guy is saying, change your outlook on it though, it's just another bitch - Fender43

Author:  thevibe [ Sun May 29, 2011 4:52 pm ]
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yup have her chase u but i think ur going to have to put in more work for the this girl than shes worth

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