okay, met a hb9 who has a lot of the same friends as me.
when she first met me I thought she was taken by a friend of a friend and I used her to help me pick up another hb8, successfully, we had a lot of fun picking up together, i liked her a lot.
when we first met I was with some attractive girl friends, and I'v done a couple of her friends so pre-selection is really working for me right off the bat.
anywayz, I came accross her on fb a few weeks later cause we have a lot of mutual friends and added her without thinking, cause I considered us friends. turns out shes single now.
trouble is I get the feeling she's just friendly with everyone and I don't really want to make that first move in fear of embarrassing myself when we have so many mutual friends.
just so you know, I'm confident with my game if the girls a stranger, if not I usually avoid the girl all together because a couple of times when i first started out had some embarrassing experiences. it was awkward for ages so i try to avoid girls who are connected to me. except she's really good at holding a convo, for once I'm not just going though the motions geting in a girls pants, its legit interesting to talk to her.
so she opened me on fb the other day. I'v been letting her control the convo and she just keeps it going, I feel like I should game her soon or I'll she'll start too lose interest but at the same time, to avoid embarrassment I wouldn't mind just forgetting about it. it's not like I'm short of options right now.
so what wo you do? i want to rap up this fb convo. I guess I could go for a number close but its a wall post and I really cant handle the rejection because shes not someone who would disappear, we know so many of the same people. shes giving me IOI's, but not strong enough to justify a high level of attraction, it could just be interest. if I could number close I'm pretty sure I could handle it from there. but I dont know how to justify it, without showing my attraction to her.
I don't know. I guess the deeper problem is this is an area of my game I don't know how to handle,if im not crazy about a girl I am pretty good with the f-close, confident and never set myself up for rejection, usually have interest after the f-close too but i don't want more. . When I genuinely like someone for who they are I can't handle it well. so lately I avoid getting attached at all.
which leaves me here.
any suggestions?
thanks,
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or maybe I'm just friendly 
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