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Author:  Bloke [ Thu May 12, 2011 10:08 am ]
Post subject:  So much comfort and no day 2?

Met this girl. Flaked first date, but we continued texting.

We text daily and talk on the phone almost every-night. This has been going on for about 3/4 weeks. She said we would catch up last weekend then canceled again on the day.

Now please no one tell me to give up.

I like this girl because she's challenging. Perhaps because I have invested so much time and still haven't won. Someone help me out.

Now her compliance else wise is high. I text, 'call me' she does. We flirt, (she says things like, 'I think I'm warming to you'.) I'm not calling or texting her today (except for one text at lunch) because I think if we keep talking with no physical escalation I'm headed for the LJBF zone.

She says she doesnt want a boyfriend and I said that's fine. She talks very sexually quite often aswell

So many mixed messages! So much comfort building and no second day!!

I can't put this down to anything at all (unless she secretly has a boyfriend or something).

Side notes: An emotionally withdrawn girl, ice queen. Took great effort to get to this stage.

Frustrated,
Bloke (skeezy)

Author:  0uch [ Fri May 13, 2011 11:26 am ]
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Comfort building needs to be done in person. Not over phone call or texting.

My reason for texting is self entertainment. My reason to call is to tell a long dhv stories that are probably couple minutes long. I mostly don't call. I get day 2's from texting usually.

When I text for self amusement, girls drop in subtle hint for me to ask them out. I just ignore it and continue. After about the 2nd time, I know she wants to hang out. So if is like a Saturday, I will shoot a text like "hey I am going to xxxxx tonight, lets hang out." I do it late in the evening like about 6 pm.

This is my style of getting days 2. I would highly suggest looking up phone or text game because your phone game puts you in a "needy" position with the girl.

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