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Author:  samantha23 [ Fri Apr 29, 2011 5:53 am ]
Post subject:  If I ever needed advice it's now, top things to do on date!
OMG. I met an HB10 online using an internet game opener I found on here. I got her to agree to meet me tomorrow night, she wants to go to a bar with me but I said if I go into the city to meet her so late I don't know how I would get home. (I live about an hour away by train) So she says 'ok, I don't usually say this, it's very forward but I'm only saying it because I want to meet you and I don't know how else you could stay out for a drink with me.. so you can stay at mine, I am very respectful and have a sofa bed.'

I am so unprepared for this! I am a newbie to the game and don't know how to play this right. I don't want to mess up because if I do I'll lose her and she is very hot. I don't have time to cram in all the routines. What are the top things in brief I should remember for the date? please help me, if I ever need you guys it's now!!
Author:  samantha23 [ Fri Apr 29, 2011 5:54 am ]
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just wanted to add she is taking me to a hot lesbian bar downtown. Please help me ASAP.
Author:  Txacoli [ Fri Apr 29, 2011 6:48 am ]
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Don't worry! Relax. She obviously likes you, so if you don't do something really bad to fuck it up, you'll be ok. Don't even think about routines, you don't need them. Just make sure you're playful, tease her a little and don't jump through her hoops. Be flirty and fun, don't be afraid to kino and maintain eye-contact to build that sexual tension between the two of you. There is a great video of gambler here that talks a lot about non-verbal escalation, watch it and see some cool ways to escalate without even touching her. richard-gambler-la-ruinas-full-speech-a-vt90138.html
Be relaxed, make sure your body language reflects that, sit back.
I'm sure you can carry a good conversation, but gambler talks about that too in the video (at the end), it's really amazing.
I hope you won't be needing the sofa tonight ;)
Let us know how it went!
Cheers!
Author:  samantha23 [ Fri Apr 29, 2011 6:53 am ]
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you're a legend Txcoli, think I should just marry you instead x
Author:  Txacoli [ Fri Apr 29, 2011 7:11 am ]
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~blushing~ :D
Author:  samantha23 [ Fri Apr 29, 2011 12:06 pm ]
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I just realised as well, our date is going to be ridiculously long. I'm shopping in the city all day, then meeting her when she finishes work around 6.. we're gonna go for drinks and then go to this lesbian bar that kicks off around 11, then I'm staying at her apartment. That means I'm going to be with her for like 13 hours :shock: I'm not worried that I won't like her, she seems perfect. But is that too long to spend with someone on a first date? Or is it a good thing? Also her first language is Spanish, could that be a problem? Fuck, I'm really nervous now...
Author:  Txacoli [ Fri Apr 29, 2011 12:21 pm ]
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Well, look at it this way. If you don't hit it off, you still have time to bail after the drink and before the club and catch the train home. If you do hit it off, it's not too long. It's actually perfect because things can develop naturally and you get to know each other so it will be less awkward to go sleep at her place. And if you hit it off really well, you might even skip going out to the club all together hehe :)
The spanish thing, when you see her you just tell her: Ay mamita, que sabrosa estas esta noche, dame un beso :) JK. Don't worry about it. I'm sure it won't be a problem. How was your communication online going? You don't even have to speak much to create good attraction, especially in the club. Just hit the dance floor together and let your bodies do the talking ;)
Author:  samantha23 [ Mon May 02, 2011 5:02 am ]
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so... Just wanted to let you know that was the best date I've ever had! She looked even more stunning in person and we spend all night drinking and dancing and kissing. Then I went back to her place and closed. Not bad for a newbie 8)
Author:  psychx [ Mon May 02, 2011 6:07 am ]
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Nice job, I'm glad to hear it.
Author:  Txacoli [ Mon May 02, 2011 8:40 pm ]
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I'm so happy for you! I wish I could say the same for my weekend, no close for me, but nevermind. I hope to still read from you even after you leave for work. Take care and the best of luck!
Author:  Beetle [ Mon May 02, 2011 8:49 pm ]
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Nice. Congrats. I think people could learn from such a date - Did you think about making a field report about it?
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