Hi, I'm new here - please don't flame me too badly if this is in the wrong place. Couldn't see where else to put it
Basically, this girl came up to me as I was leaving a club the other week and we chatted and drank for a bit before leaving but it didn't escalate further, as I ended going back to another friends to do coke.
Texted a bit though and met up on uni campus a couple times as it's revision season and she's there a lot. Finally went for a walk in a park off campus where I again feel I missed an opportunity but we went for a drink after and that was cool, joked and teased her a bit.
Then finally she invited me around to hers the other night, where we watched some TV on her bed and did kiss a couple of times but again I just drew a blank at escalating further. My kino escalation just sucks so hard as it's been ages since I did anything physical with a girl beyond kissing and what more I've done has basically always been when drunk. So she just ended up driving me home, and gave me a hug before I left the car.
And so now I feel that she may have written me off as awkward and unconfident. Is that likely? Or if she actually does really like me will she at least maybe persevere for a little longer? Any advice on the best way at giving myself another chance with this girl?
if not they will usually say exactly what they are up for and you will know where you stand. Just ask her out again and when in the same situation don't hold back, she isn't sharing your spit because she doesn't want to sleep with you.