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| Author: | bounty_killa [ Thu Apr 21, 2011 6:35 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Hanging out with interest..and her friend |
Hey guys, I finally went out with this girl I like and her friend for lunch. It was a friendly meeting but she seemed really hot and cold towards me. Whenever her friend was around she became passive with her friend doing all the talking, and whenever her friend wasn't around she got all flirty and touchy with me (holding on to my arms hugging me etc.) I didn't ignore the friend at all, I spoke to her maybe more than my interest. I number closed them both. My question is, what is up with her friend? Was she just scoping me out? Oh and when we were leaving her friend constantly kept asking me why I was so quiet..it really was because I ran out of things to say. What do you do? |
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| Author: | bounty_killa [ Sat Apr 23, 2011 9:19 pm ] |
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I should mention we went for lunch at the mall, and we're all 19. |
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| Author: | PUA Kenny [ Sun Apr 24, 2011 12:20 am ] |
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It's quite natural for the target to be passive or hot & cold when around her friends. In fact,it's the norm. That's why the community teaches us that you should not game a girl infront of her friends. Isolate her first. She doesnt want to seem easy nor slutty around her friend(s). Thus she wont be opened as if you and her. Nothing wrong with being quiet in such cases of a 3 ppl date. Just as long as you're being quiet out of cool confidnce as if you were a CEO. But unfortunately,you were quiet out of social anxiety-running out of things to say. I liked that you #-closed both of them. Dont be pissed that she brought her friend. It's more of a safety/comfort iusse for her. But if her friend doesnt approve of you-it's game over. The target(interet)will begin to freeze you out and distance herself. So her friend being there was a catch 22. But it seems like you made a decent impression on the friend. |
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| Author: | Dragula [ Sun Apr 24, 2011 12:52 am ] |
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"Win the crowd d you will win your freedom " Translation.."win over her friend and you will win your targets vagoo" |
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| Author: | bounty_killa [ Tue Apr 26, 2011 6:54 pm ] |
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Actually I think I did badly, cuz her friend kept teasing me about how much of a god guy I am. My interest kept defending me like "leave him alone whats wrong if he's a good guy." I was stumped as how to respond to this. Case in point: when texting she'll frequently respond to my first text and then suddenly stop. 
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| Author: | PUA Kenny [ Tue Apr 26, 2011 9:59 pm ] |
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@Bounty Killa-Ah man,they were Amoging the shit out of you. Wow,it's worse than I thought. You should've been striking bacc. |
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| Author: | bounty_killa [ Wed Apr 27, 2011 5:26 am ] |
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Yeah i figured i should but im an AFC and having 2 deal with 2 ppl made me anxious. Nevertheless what would you hav done differently keepin in mind u kno only basic stuff abt them. |
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| Author: | PUA Kenny [ Wed Apr 27, 2011 2:12 pm ] |
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Whether you knew stuff about them or not should'nt change your vibe. I would've talked more,chat like a parrot,threw out ome DHV stories about myself,get into their minds by asking them quetions about lesbian sex,did some best friends routine and got up and excuse myself pretending to get a few phone calls or texts. |
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