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| Author: | redmartin [ Sat Apr 09, 2011 8:58 am ] |
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I've had a few encounters lately and I felt really relaxed with these girls. I met this girl on a train the other day. She was working with tickets and I really liked her a lot. She was definitely "my type" so I opened almost instantly when I first saw her with a smile and the fact that she reminded me of someone I knew a long time ago (which was true as well). We met in the same circumstances a couple of more times and had some chit chat. My problem is though taking it to the next step after this. I was completely clueless as to how I would take it further and it started to feel a little awkward seeing her there. I asked her for her number and she declined this time which made me realize that I must have missed something and it did feel that I have missed something but I just haven't been able to figure out what it was. This is usually where I get stuck most of the time though. I can open them and talk to them without feeling nervous, but when it comes to developing and deepening the conversation, I get completely lost. What is it that I'm missing here? |
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| Author: | SkyGroove [ Sat Apr 09, 2011 2:11 pm ] |
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you've just gotta study some game, that's all mate |
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| Author: | Bayern [ Sun Apr 10, 2011 4:56 am ] |
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That's not really helpful Skygroove. I've found that there is a curve- a natural time limit on "opening" conversation. If the next step is not taken within x amount of time, the conversation will have peaked and then slide down into awkwardness. How are these next steps taken when the "vibe" is not in the on position? Edit- Lurk moar- learn to escalate |
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