Hey there,
First post but i've been lurking for quite some time, and i've learnt loads of useful stuff so thanks to the admins and contributors
First off my apologies for any english mistake as it's not my first language (i'm French). I'd be interested to have your views on the following situation.
5 months ago i met a girl through a course i took to prepare an exam, we got along great so we ended up attending the course together, working and helping each other the whole time. In all fairness, i would rank her, strictly physically, as a HB7. But she's very cool, very bright, has a great sense of humor, and she's highly charismatic, meeting new people and making new friends is like snapping her fingers to her. Thus the whole thing gives her an aura that raises her in my eyes to a HB9 status.
We took our exam, saw each other a couple times afterwards in the following weeks, then i no longer got news from her. As i said, she's very charismatic and has an impressive social circle, which includes a handful of male admirers. For instance, one time she published a facebook status claiming she was quitting smoking and that she was "getting fat and needed a coach to go jog with her asap" or something to that effect (that would suck, because she has a great body
). Couple hours after her wall was covered with several answers from guys saying "yeah sure" and "no, no, me first" and that rubbish. Well, i was willing never to see her again rather than indulging in this kind of ass kissing behavior. I didn't give her any news from me. I wanted to give her a chance to miss me and to see if she would reinitiate contact.
Fast forward three months, and lately i received a text from her saying "hey long time no see! Wanna go have lunch with me one of these days?" I said yeah why not and we set up a place and date.
When we were working together five months ago, i didn't make a move because i knew she was seeing someone, from what i gathered it was an on and off relationship and i don't know where she stands today. I think she may be attracted to me because the whole time we spent working together we always had a lot of EC. Like when talking we would lock eyes and never look away. From time to time i also did some light kino on her.
Moreover, i distincly remember one occasion (which leaves me with regrets in retrospect, because i should have acted on it) when we were seated side by side in a packed place for a few minutes, so we had to be real close to each other with our legs touching, and while we chatted we kept our heads turned sideways, which is kind of uncomfortable, and the time we talked we kept our eyes locked with our faces maybe a foot apart. I even glanced at her lips a little, and she never looked away. I definitely should have leaned in for a kiss, stupid i know.
Apart from these little hints (which i may be making up in my own mind) she never verbalized a clear hint that she could be attracted to me.
Do you think she might be? I'm definitely willing to take risks at the lunch date to show her my sexual attraction to her, as i'm really not interested in a platonic friendship. To keep it short, anything, even utter failure, would be better than being LJBFed.
I'm eager to read your opinion and your advices, as the date is coming up fast