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Author:  TStark92 [ Thu Mar 10, 2011 9:36 pm ]
Post subject:  What if the girl controls the conversation?
Yesterday i was practicing my conversation skills on the facebook.
I musst say that i was really good in it, i've chatted with about 10 girls first in my life time and that is a ACHIEVEMENT for me tnx to the community :) :P
So it was all good till to this one girl that was from my neighborhood and obviously she know a lot of things about me, so she was asking me all the time questions about my ex girlfriends and that kind of stuff, i didn't know what to do , If i even should do any thing at all against it or just leave it and just answer the f questions. I was in a dilemma because i didn't want to look like an AFC :( . So now i ask you what really should i do in this kind of a situation?
Author:  Trivium [ Thu Mar 10, 2011 9:55 pm ]
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if you want to answer her question about your ex, you can but dont talk about bad stuff about your ex.

if you feel unconfortable talking about your ex ...just tell her you dont want to talk about your ex and that the past is the past ;)

hope this helps :)


trivium
Author:  TStark92 [ Fri Mar 11, 2011 12:27 pm ]
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Ok tnx you've been very helpful :P

So i have this other question. If you approach to a girl with an opener ( that is A1 by the mistery method) so A2 is baiscly talking about any thing? Or I understand this one wrong? :)
Author:  Trivium [ Fri Mar 11, 2011 1:18 pm ]
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i cant help you with the theorical part of the mystery method ...(the A1 A2 thingy)

sorry! :(


but still im happy to hear you liked my comment !

TRIVIUM

ps. Ask that new question in the "approach" section
Author:  TStark92 [ Fri Mar 11, 2011 2:29 pm ]
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Ok no problem at all! :P
Tnx for the help anyway i will ask for the answer in the aproach section. :)
Author:  Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Fri Mar 11, 2011 2:47 pm ]
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Ok tnx you've been very helpful :P

So i have this other question. If you approach to a girl with an opener ( that is A1 by the mistery method) so A2 is baiscly talking about any thing? Or I understand this one wrong? :)
Don't worry too much about the details of the Mystery Method. Nobody really uses it and sticks to it rigidly any more. It's more of a general guideline so you make sure you're moving the interaction forward.

A1 - SMILE, start the conversation, e.g. with an opener [Hook her interest]

A2 - talk about something normal with her, like a story about something funny that happened to you recently. Joke around a bit, get her to laugh and smile. [Show you're not a creep, but a normal, cool, fun guy to hang out with]

A3 - tell her she's cute, touch her, stand closer, turn your body language towards her [Make it clear you're into her - express INTENT]

You can also combine A1 and A3 by opening with a statement of romantic intent, e.g. by telling her she's cute to begin with [a DIRECT opener]. This saves you from doing A2 altogether, which is handy.
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