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When to start with very sexual Statements of Intent?
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Author:  Refelex [ Tue Feb 15, 2011 9:56 pm ]
Post subject:  When to start with very sexual Statements of Intent?
When do more aggressive Statements of Interest s have more effectiveness, during Comfort? Attraction? Conversation after Opener?

such as....

"dont get me wrong, I dont only say that because I wanna get into your pants...."

"Im about to start hitting on you...."

And any suggestions on what do to if the chick suddenly asfter such statements starts getting a big head attitude as in "oh i have him figure out"

I know delivering them has a lot to do with having a fun attitude about it and yes, I have used my own improv'd statements of intent before I knew what they were.....but I dont think I have understood how to callibrate what benefit or not they may have.


thanks Reflex
Author:  PUA Kenny [ Tue Feb 15, 2011 11:02 pm ]
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I think you have it right;I dont see your calibration issues as far as from the examples you gave.

My delivery of strong SOI is similar to yours.
Author:  Refelex [ Tue Feb 15, 2011 11:09 pm ]
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I think I may have not made myself clear....Im not clear on when they SOIs are usually best suited...at what stage of the interaction?
Author:  Riott [ Wed Feb 16, 2011 12:19 am ]
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I've been throwing out statements of intent after the girl has jumped through a fairly large qualification hoop- or will move with me. In general, when I have a good amount of attraction.

However, you can't go out firing with a really sexual SOI. You have to build up to those kind of SOIs because you will sound creepy.

I do something similiar to what Sinn does in relationship ladders- in which I pair a compliment with an SOI with a release if needed and then escalate. Things like
We're going to be friends
I'm hitting on you
I'm trying to get in your pants.

That's building up.

If anytime the girl seems to feel uncomfortable I release with some light teasing to kill the tension and then go on with the normal conversation

Examples

Random compliment, and I mean that even though I think you're really adoreable. Release: Too bad you're a huge dork
Random compliment, and I mean that even though I think you're sexy- release
Random compliment, and I mean that even though I'm totally hitting on you.

Etc.

When you gradually build up to things that are more sexual it really makes things go a lot smother, because it isn't totally out of left field.

Hope that helps.
Author:  Lioncharm [ Wed Feb 16, 2011 10:16 am ]
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Yep, I agree with Riot. You would want to have built up a fair bit of attraction befoer throwing out sexually loaded comment, and after she has jumped through some smaller hoops. Sending mixed signals with a complement and then a pull back comment is good for building attraction. Instead of saying it, why not just go ahead a demonstrate it with small kino bit by bit. Check out the kiss game gambit used by Style or Savoy I think.
Author:  Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Wed Feb 16, 2011 11:26 am ]
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Yep, I agree with Riot. You would want to have built up a fair bit of attraction befoer throwing out sexually loaded comment, and after she has jumped through some smaller hoops. Sending mixed signals with a complement and then a pull back comment is good for building attraction. Instead of saying it, why not just go ahead a demonstrate it with small kino bit by bit. Check out the kiss game gambit used by Style or Savoy I think.
BULLSHIT ALERT.

You don't have to "build attraction" before you flirt with a girl. You can OPEN by telling a girl you're coming over to hit on her. In fact, she ALREADY KNOWS what you're doing, (despite how indirect you might think you're being), so joking about it actually shows social intelligence and confidence. If you mix it up with jokes about her hitting on YOU, and of course making fun of her a bit, with escalation and so forth, you're golden.
Author:  C.Dribs [ Thu Feb 17, 2011 7:56 pm ]
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I find Ryan Oceros aka blondguy approach to be perfect, at least for me. I find as if that would be the most fun way to go about it. I'm a very honest person I don't bother with lying and deceive to an extent for the sole reason it takes to much time and effort when i could just get the same end in less work.
Author:  AdamThomas [ Fri Feb 18, 2011 11:19 pm ]
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You don't have to "build attraction" before you flirt with a girl. You can OPEN by telling a girl you're coming over to hit on her. In fact, she ALREADY KNOWS what you're doing, (despite how indirect you might think you're being), so joking about it actually shows social intelligence and confidence. If you mix it up with jokes about her hitting on YOU, and of course making fun of her a bit, with escalation and so forth, you're golden.
Exactly :D
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