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| Author: | ImNaShitFool [ Sat Feb 05, 2011 3:36 am ] |
| Post subject: | Ways To calibrate Mid game? + mini progress report inside :) |
Disclaimer: Im going completely natural here, no gambits, routines, or canned material need apply... When I first started learning attraction game, it was fairly easy for me... I learned negs.. cocky funny, etc and that was already part of my personality so it came easy and then after my first couple cold approaches I thought that cold approaching was lame, and took way too long to calibrate, so instead.. I ran attraction game on the manager at this female clothing store and landed a job as a sales associate.. where I then built my attraction game to the point where I had married women running comfort game on me... opening EVERY day.. Gaining Value in the Mall.. I literally went from The dude in the plain white shirt that eye fucked girls too much.. To the well dressed, good looking dude, and the kiosk girls have called me a "Chippendale" n stopped me to tell me I had pretty eyes. but heres the kicker... All That is absolutely USELESS without Comfort game!!!!! Just Off Attraction, The ONLY girls you can get are the really Easy ones.. Being attractive is like having a high school diploma when most girls are looking for a bachelors lol.. Any Self Respecting, socially intelligent female Will NOT allow a situation to escalate unless she feels like she has a connection with you(excluding certain emotionally charged situations). Even Easy girls will Force you into comfort game if they want you or wait for the slightest sign of a connection.. but if you come off as incongruent or as if your not sure of yourself, they shoot you down off principle.. and put you in a weird attractive person friend zone where they give you iois and shit test you all the time but dont really invest in you much... My Problem... Is that I'm very closed off emotionally.. I dont like telling people how I feel, or showing people my opinionated side.. Sooooooo Its not like im not willing to get over this, But its that Im super awkward in this stage and im not sure how to remain in control of the situation but still switch gears and go into a more warm type vibe.. im not sure exactly HOW comfortable she is supposed to be, How much im supposed to let her know, how vunerable im allowed to be.. etc.. how much about her should I know? the thing thats worked w. the few girls I do have comfort with is finding a commonality with an interest or vunerability thats very personal to her.. But thats dosent happen with every girl, so what else can I do? |
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| Author: | Viking_level_1 [ Wed Feb 09, 2011 5:52 pm ] |
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I'm somewhat in the same situation as you. I am an AFC, so I am not giving advice. But I will let you know if I stumbel over an answer to point us in the right direction, in case this topic leads nowhere. |
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