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| Author: | diablo333 [ Thu Jan 13, 2011 1:13 am ] |
| Post subject: | My friend getting the girls and I get left in the dust? |
This good friend of mine seems to attract tons of girls (just off his looks), even when his social skills are sub-par with girls. I do most the talking when we are with girls at a bar yet they all remain into him. From what I've been told I am not bad-looking either, but I am also alot more friendly and social. I have had tons of times where I run into girls we met somewhere else and they will ask if my friend is there with me (even when he barely even would talk to the girl when we first met) This exact scenario has happened to me countless times. Just recently some girl added me on facebook that I had met and she messaged me asking for his number. I never answered back. What can I do to fix/avoid this?? Also please refrain from saying "hang out with other people" cause me and my friend get along well and I do hang out with other people frequently. It's just everytime I am around him stuff like this happens. It has been making me bitter towards him which isnt right. |
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| Author: | Machida [ Thu Jan 13, 2011 4:47 am ] |
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Quote: Just recently some girl added me on facebook that I had met and she messaged me asking for his number. I never answered back.
Why didnt you give her his number?... Having friends who get girls is a good thing, do not try and hold him back. Being social and friendly is not going to have girls chasing you. You haven't gone into much depth about your approach or analyzed your friends so it would be hard to give solid advice from my knowledge but you should understand that some guys are naturals, the wreak of confidence, know what to say, when to say it and have dangerously captivating eyes that can fuck any girl from across the room.. if your friend gets girls with such little effort I suggest sitting back and watching him. Why not talk to him about it - I talk game with all my boys. Study inner-game, body language, work on what you wear, dont be too eager, and importantly - work with your buddy instead of against him |
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| Author: | P-Eazy [ Thu Jan 13, 2011 9:06 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: My friend getting the girls and I get left in the dust? |
Quote: even when his social skills are sub-par with girls. I do most the talking when we are with girls at a bar yet they all remain into him.
Man he's using you as he's pivot, i'm not saying he is aware he's doing it as everything you are saying is he is a natural, you're doing all the fluffing for him while he just ignores them doing his alpha thing, his body language is obviously doing all the talking, he's cool around the hot women and by not giving his targets the attention you are he's walking away with them in the end.How about you two doing a role reversal, mirror each other's behaviour, send him in to be sociable and you hang back giving the target a bit of eye contact and the smile, make sure you get the IOI then just go straight up and isolate her while he is keeping the friends occupied. Get on some of Adam Lyons' youtube video's about frame control and gaming groups, the get your friend to play wingman on the set's you want. |
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| Author: | lw723 [ Thu Jan 13, 2011 12:56 pm ] |
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Go solo, or find another wing |
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| Author: | AdamThomas [ Sun Jan 16, 2011 3:14 pm ] |
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A lot of stuff on this forum will go against this, but being friendly and social doesn't get you laid. I'm not Mr. social, I'm a really quiet guy. It used to bother me that I suck at making conversation, but recently I've started to understand that being social isn't what gets you laid. It can hurt you if you're too friendly, because women stop seeing you as a sexual partner and see you as entertainment instead. You should focus more on projecting a sexual vibe through sexual state, framing, body language etc. That's probably why your friend get's more girls than you. I read another guy's post somewhere on here where his natural friend kept stealing girls without saying anything, and when he was asked how he did it he said it was all about "eye-fucking". You should check out Chiefs post on sexual attraction, that should help you understand it better. |
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| Author: | FROZ3N [ Sun Jan 16, 2011 4:46 pm ] |
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I know exactly how this feels. I have a mate who gets all the girls based solely on his looks a lone. He does things like buy them drinks and is nice but has girls instantly turned on and ready to eff his brains out. Annoying but I noticed I sucked at body language, he wasn't afraid of them and is a very travelled and interesting guy. I realised I was in the wrong. I am not entertaining, he tells stories about his trio and playing the Chello. I do not throw negs, neither does he. I do not smile he does. most of all? He is extremely comfortable with girls. Don't be a hater and remember girls never go out alone and even if he takes 1 there's plenty of other fish in the sea. It is annoying though when a girl takes one look at him, walks over and grabs his balls. |
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