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Author:  Jack123 [ Fri Jan 07, 2011 8:41 pm ]
Post subject:  Transition to Mid Game

My First post here guys be easy on me! :D
This took place at a party. So my opener was just making friends with all her friends and ignoring her until she started butting in and just negged her a bit. She eventually poked me saying she thinks I'm cute. During this party we talked a bit and she left early. My ass was too drunk and forgot to get a number.
I found her on facebook and we messaged back and forth and made another mistake of asking for her number to hangout. After that we texted back and forth making some rappot with her. By the end of the texting I asked her to hangout with me the next day and left it at that.
Next day I decided to leave her hanging to actually try to get the ball back in my court of control but she never called or texted to see if we were doing anything.
Now my Question is what would be the next step in actually getting this girl to be more interested in me considering she already gave me tons of IOIs previously at the party? Should I just completely forget and let her do the texting/calling from this point?

Author:  Woody94 [ Tue Jan 11, 2011 7:48 pm ]
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Now, im not pretending to know anything, because i don't know that much myself. Im new to the game, and there may be some truth and some.. mislead info on my behalf, entirely accidental mislead info.
But seeing as you haven't received feedback for over 4 days, and ive being doing tons of research, it seems to me that if you dont text her, then she can easily not text back, however if you text back saying something like 'its a shame we never caught up before, how about we hang out soon, let me know when you free and we can go get a drink/coffee etc.'
from hearing that i can only think 2 things, either she doesnt reply, which she wasnt anyway so at least you tried. OR she will reply..
in which case, your in.
But again, if you dont text her, is it likely she will contact you again. Did you create comfort between you enough so that she remembers you in such a way as not to be just 'a guy from a party' which is what i have been reading recently with Mysterys m3 Model.
Hope something helped, and if you have already resolved it, which may be likely then at least i tried :)

Author:  C.Dribs [ Tue Jan 11, 2011 7:52 pm ]
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To be honest, I kinda of feel like you missed your opportunity and now your the one chasing her. Don't get me wrong I'm no PUA which explains why I have no solution to your problem, but this is a common thing I've done several times I hate having to backtrack and restart sometimes I wont even get as far as i did last time, so I'm curious to a solution to this.

Author:  lw723 [ Wed Jan 12, 2011 12:58 pm ]
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I've been playing the game for 2 years now and still pretty newb, I've made the same mistake before.
when i made the mistake it ended with the texting game.

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