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| Author: | greykitkat36 [ Mon Dec 27, 2010 7:11 am ] |
| Post subject: | Need help with this situation. Escalation/etc. |
So, I've known this girl for about a year, we've never hung out alone, but always with some of her friends, and some of mine. Everyone in both circles wants us to hook up and it seems as though they try to set it up that way. I have k closed her the first night we met, but since then nothing. She's a flirty girl and friendly with lots of people, so it's tough to tell if I still get IOI's or not. She has parties at her house a lot, and sometimes we talk for 10-15 minutes, and then sometimes she pretends like I'm not there, coming to greet me like an hour into the party saying , "I didn't know you were here!, how are you?" Sometimes she replies to me on facebook, when I comment her statuses, I mention that I really like the band she posted lyrics to. She says "when can we go see them live?" So, stuff like that makes me think IOI, though it could just be a friend thing. Out of the blue, she'll text me asking where the party is, then saying " you should come over and pregame here!!" I reply "I'm already pregaming at a friends house, I'll meet you there", She doesn't show up to the party until it's practically over, and then tries to call me, drunk as hell. I never facebook im her, never text her randomly, and don't call her. I only see her occasionally when both groups get together, or when her house throws parties. So, my question, is based on the above, where do I stand with this girl? And How should I go about taking this to the next level? Or, should I just forget about her? |
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| Author: | miky_ardiente [ Mon Dec 27, 2010 8:56 pm ] |
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dude if u are suspicious about her friends wanting to hook u up with her why havent u make a move yet? u say u know her for a year right, so u should know what type of things she like, u have that in ur favor but the point is, the best way u'll know if she's interested is in the "alone time" whether u are in a party or out with her friends, aislate her and then search for the IOI, i dont know them all by memory (there's a thread for that) among the most commons ones are: she touches u more than she should (even when she is saying meaningless things) she plays with her hair, she alienates her body towards u, she let u touch her, when u take her by the hand she doesnt let go, her eyes go wide open etc etc, like i said, search those kind of things when ur alone with her, if u see them u know u can escalate, ur goal should at least be the kiss watch gamble´s video stealth seduction it is pure gold, do what he does in the video and she wont stop thinking about u |
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| Author: | greykitkat36 [ Tue Dec 28, 2010 7:10 am ] |
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Thanks, I tend to struggle with the isolation part, how do I go about doing that in a party that she is running? Even in regular situations, the isolation part seems awkward, im just never sure when the right time is to isolate and what to really do to get there. |
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| Author: | miky_ardiente [ Wed Dec 29, 2010 4:58 am ] |
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isolation its more easy than one may think is really not that complicated u just have to understand the situation that u are in at the moment for example u say in a party that she is running that could be more difficult cuz if she´s the host she has to be taking care of everybody (or at least i think a host does that) so she will be busy so she will spend most of the time welcoming the guessts, chatting a little with everbody, etc etc u can say her something like: u look like u need a little break from all the welcoming and the receiving of guests, come join me outside for a little, i wanna cath some fresh air get out for a smoke, to leave the noise a little, anything will do just make sure u look really casual about it if she says no dont take it personally, she maight have too much going on at the moment, after all she´s the host of the party i dont think u get a no, at least u´ll get a wait me for 5 minutes or something like that if she is in a group maybe she doesnt wanna leave the group at the moment but in general i dont think there is a right time when i was younger i wasted several partys and girls searching for that "right time" to talk to here, but there isnt u have to men up and make it happen, ur main obstacle is not the girl or the friends or the party, it is u, believe me i talk out of experience i had to learn the hardway, but nowdays if i see a chance i take it 1 have confidence 2 walk to her (she´ll notice ur confident and be impressed) 3 say come with me outside for a drink/smoke/opinion/whatever 4 when alone with her start the kino tactics if u have more questions just pm me and i´ll try to help u at my best |
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