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Author:  Matahashi [ Tue Dec 07, 2010 8:59 pm ]
Post subject:  dwelling into the female mind
k ive got a girl that ive been trying to crack for about a week. i wouldnt say its going bad because ive got a lot out of her that she doesnt tell anyone else. but i just figured id ask for some ideas on how to get her even more comfortable with me. so throw your best ideas at me.
Author:  PlayHer Man [ Fri Dec 10, 2010 2:21 am ]
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Too much talking and not enough action.

The key to being a good PUA is action over words. Flirt with her, invite her to do shit, get her into your bed.

Your first goal is to get into her vagina ASAP. After that their is plenty of time for "talking". Until you are having sex you are "just friends". Therefore, until you are having sex you should still be meeting other girls.
Author:  Matahashi [ Fri Dec 10, 2010 2:11 pm ]
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many many issues w that. im not looking for sex, especially not right now. shes extremely fragile because of a really bad relationship shes been through. im just trying to make sure i can get an answer out of her and make sure she knows she can tell me anything when i want it because she's a little stubborn and doesnt like her past. she already knows where we stand relationship wise and so do i, sex, hell not even anything past kissing, is going to happen yet and thats my choice.
Author:  PUA Kenny [ Fri Dec 10, 2010 2:39 pm ]
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@PlayHer Man-Lol,right attitude and right advise.

Getting to know her and cracking her will only lead you to be deeply invested in this girl which leads to ONE'itis.

@Matahashi-Believe it or not,whether she's fragile right now,you're dropping points by being her counsellor & psycologist.

You cannot counsel a girl yet game her same time-I've learnt hard way many times.

It's either or.Either you remain her shoulder to lean on,i.e.her friend,meaning you're solely in the friend zone/harmless/man I'd never sleep with box.

Or,you can be her newest lover.

You've choosen the harmless-friend zoned route.

Nothing wrong with that if that's your ultimate goal.

The only thing that would get her or anyone over a bad break up is to be laying someone else.

If it' not you,she'll eventually have sex with another guy,or maybe she's currently doing it,while you're too busy trying to psycho-analyze her.

After sex-everything happens.

So if it's a relationship you want from her.

Then lay her.

But there's no way she'll be with you seriously,or any guy without being laid by that guy.

Relationships evolve out of sex.

Deep connection evolve from sex.

You're trying to attain those things in reverse.

After laying the girl,you wont have too try figuring her out.

She'll volunteer everything and allow you to dwell or delve in her mind.

So our aim should be KINO & SEX.
Author:  Roz [ Fri Dec 10, 2010 3:26 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: dwelling into the female mind
Get her even more comfortable with you ? Buddy, wake up! You're in the friend zone- getting her more comfortable should not be the game plan here.

Stop playing therapist and escalate!


-Roz
Author:  Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Fri Dec 10, 2010 3:47 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: dwelling into the female mind
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Stop playing therapist and escalate!
+1
Author:  PUA Kenny [ Fri Dec 10, 2010 3:58 pm ]
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@Roz-Could'nt put it better;and that's coming from a female.

You cannot be her therapist and try eventually lay her.

She'll feel offended,betrayed and weird.
Author:  obstruction [ Fri Dec 10, 2010 6:40 pm ]
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So being a jerk is the way to go lol?
Author:  Matahashi [ Fri Dec 10, 2010 9:29 pm ]
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So being a jerk is the way to go lol?
thank you...i dont think you guys get what im trying to do. first off, get your heads out of your asses w the sex thing its not going to happen i already said that. im already in the boyfriend material zone but there are things (things i dont feel like discussing on here) that are preventing us from dating for about another month, so in the mean time id like some ways to make her feel like she can always come to me for help because believe it or not your girlfriend/boyfrend can be your best friend.

so keep on topic or get off my forum. thanks :P
Author:  PlayHer Man [ Sat Dec 11, 2010 1:00 am ]
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So being a jerk is the way to go lol?
thank you...i dont think you guys get what im trying to do. first off, get your heads out of your asses w the sex thing its not going to happen i already said that. im already in the boyfriend material zone but there are things (things i dont feel like discussing on here) that are preventing us from dating for about another month, so in the mean time id like some ways to make her feel like she can always come to me for help because believe it or not your girlfriend/boyfrend can be your best friend.

so keep on topic or get off my forum. thanks :P
This is the PUA forum. So most advice will be about getting into her pants. Why else would you come here? If you want advice on how to be a AFC or a nice guy you are in the wrong place.

Just sayin'
Author:  Matahashi [ Sat Dec 11, 2010 1:18 am ]
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So being a jerk is the way to go lol?
thank you...i dont think you guys get what im trying to do. first off, get your heads out of your asses w the sex thing its not going to happen i already said that. im already in the boyfriend material zone but there are things (things i dont feel like discussing on here) that are preventing us from dating for about another month, so in the mean time id like some ways to make her feel like she can always come to me for help because believe it or not your girlfriend/boyfrend can be your best friend.

so keep on topic or get off my forum. thanks :P
This is the PUA forum. So most advice will be about getting into her pants. Why else would you come here? If you want advice on how to be a AFC or a nice guy you are in the wrong place.

Just sayin'
no. theres an entire section about relatioships. which sadly i cant post in yet cuz you gotta make so many posts yadda yadda. so this is the next best place.
Author:  Machida [ Sat Dec 11, 2010 8:45 pm ]
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no. theres an entire section about relatioships. which sadly i cant post in yet cuz you gotta make so many posts
Haha suckaa!

But I know what you have to do! Looking back at my successful relationships, many of them started off as me being genuine friends with the girl (meaning I didnt ever think i would date her or ask questions on PUAforum.com about how to get her...) What happened in these friendships however is that the sexual tension became too much to handle and we would crack, fuck and love it. Doing that with someone you have a previous connection with can be really rewarding.

But I agree that you need sex, if you dont want to do it right now work on building tension. dont be a pussy though, you dont have to be a jerk, but all men and women want sex.



Im routing for you man! dont fall into the friend zone
Author:  _Jax_ [ Sat Dec 11, 2010 8:57 pm ]
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Im getting the vibe that you want to be in a non-physical relationship with this girl. Which I find....Interesting.

It sounds like your becoming her best bwuddy. (W intended)
Make it a little more clear, what are you trying to do with this girl?
Author:  PUA Kenny [ Sat Dec 11, 2010 9:26 pm ]
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Exactly Jax;Im a bit confused as to what Matahashi wants.

@Machida-I agree that you can build tension(sexual) opposed to laying a girl instantly.

But I think building-sexual tenion technique is for skilled guys. who knows how to,and undertands what is going on.
Author:  Matahashi [ Sat Dec 11, 2010 9:35 pm ]
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@machida. ok that makes a little more sense. thank you.

@jax its not that i want a non physical relationship. theres just things in the way right now i have come to terms with that sex isnt going to happen yet. the only chance i really could have was wen she was drunk last week but i manned up and didnt do it because i dont think that is the right thing to do. if your still confused, i want an actual lasting relationship w her, not anything based off of sex or physical attraction.


edit: to be honest after doing some thinking and recent events that have happend i think im gonna start freezing out. because as of the 18th i wont see her for two weeks so im gonna slowly distance myself till then to make sure she thinks about me for those two weeks. sound like a good idea?
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