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| Author: | z3r0x [ Mon Dec 06, 2010 11:59 am ] |
| Post subject: | Insecure Girls |
Had a girl recently break it off with me, same usual reasons. Not too fussed other than learning where I went wrong. I think I fell in to being the 'nice' guy. Basically, she was VERY insecure. When any of these came up like 'I don't like my arms', 'I don't like my body'(She's atleast a HB7), I would usually compliment that part of her she didn't like, 'I like your arms', 'Shut up your body is hot' etc. But looking back that now seems a little counterintuative. I think paying her a compliment after she said she doesn't like something about herself made me lose attraction. Just looking for what other people do when this stuff comes up. |
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| Author: | MynameisFisher [ Mon Dec 06, 2010 12:29 pm ] |
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Er if she is insecure about her looks you complimenting it will not get her over it. It's her problem and her insecurity and you have nothing to do with it. I wouldn't compliment that part of her instead I would reassure her I love her the way she is. Note: problems like this can come up early in the game too before you are really in a relationship. When I'm dealing with that I just do not give the slightest attention to things like this. It is not your duty to validate the HB on things she's insecure about. It DLVs. |
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