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Author:  _Chárm_ [ Sun Dec 05, 2010 12:17 am ]
Post subject:  Complex situation, in need of advice
Hello Everyone

I was hoping to get your views on a situation of mine. I have never really tried out "University/School Game" before but since there is this HB9 in my class i am considering giving it a try.

The problem is that we are on a pretty much friend to friend basis and get along well on a "professional" level in terms of projects and other school related topics. I have no experience in moving forward from this position and i am uncertain on how i should turn this into something a bit more interesting. :twisted:

What are your views on this. Is there a way or is this just a horrible idea considering we are classmates?

/Charm
Author:  PlayHer Man [ Sun Dec 05, 2010 12:53 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Complex situation, in need of advice
Quote:
Hello Everyone

I was hoping to get your views on a situation of mine. I have never really tried out "University/School Game" before but since there is this HB9 in my class i am considering giving it a try.

The problem is that we are on a pretty much friend to friend basis and get along well on a "professional" level in terms of projects and other school related topics. I have no experience in moving forward from this position and i am uncertain on how i should turn this into something a bit more interesting. :twisted:

What are your views on this. Is there a way or is this just a horrible idea considering we are classmates?

/Charm
You wont be classmates forever. Just figure out if you want to date her while you are still classmates or wait till your class ends. You can do either depending on what you are most comfortable with. So the approach depends on which you prefer:

Option 1: Date her now.

I suggest flirting. Next class or project you have tell her how nice her hair looks today. Big smile. Be subtle yet obvious. See how she responds to that. Do it a few times over a few days. If you come out of no where she will be spooked.. so do it gradually. So after a week or so of flirting... approach her after class and ask her if she is interested in studying with you. Tell her you need help studying for a test. If she is feeling you she will do it. Then escalate accordingly.

Option 2: After class finishes.

Same approach as option one... only with different timing. Start flirting with her now.. but don't take action until the last week of class before final exams. Tell her you want to study for the finals with her. Escalate accordingly.

Hope that is helpful.
Author:  _Chárm_ [ Sun Dec 05, 2010 1:05 am ]
Post subject:  Interesting
I like the way you put the level of approach here. i can see how it would be convenient with a smooth but clear way of letting her know im interested and escalating accordingly.

I will definatly give the second option a try since i have nothing to loose on it and the whole issue of being in the same class (if i manage to fuck things up) becomes irrelevant.

Thanks for your thoughts! More views are always welcome!

/Charm
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