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| Author: | jungtionizer [ Mon Nov 15, 2010 11:43 pm ] |
| Post subject: | I have NO idea where I am with this girl |
I go to a local gym for Taekwondo, where I met this exchange student. She barely speaks English, and we are both black belts. Her friends who are also exchange students go to the gym as well, and they are all blackbelts, so this factor cannot be a DHV factor. However, when I playfully doubted her judo skills, she challenged me in a grappling match. Now she wants a rematch. I usually wouldn't take this as an IOI, but she keeps kicking me playfully in the butt, and smiles a lot when I tease her. The funny thing is though, I have done nothing to try to hit on her, so I'm kinda suspicious of all these potential IOIs. How do I move on from here? Also, what'd be a sneaky way to get her to tell me if she's dating one of her exchange friends or not? |
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| Author: | kasabi [ Tue Nov 16, 2010 12:25 am ] |
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Ask her out. |
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| Author: | Nayail [ Tue Nov 16, 2010 1:35 am ] |
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Quote: Ask her out.
Yepor Agree to the rematch with the stipulation that loser buys coffee, dinner, etc... |
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| Author: | jungtionizer [ Tue Nov 16, 2010 3:02 am ] |
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so i guess those were IOIs after all based on your replies. I really need to work on detecting IOIs, since I am terrible at it. A few times, I missed my chance with attractive girls because I missed all of their obvious IOIs. Does anyone know a good post for spotting IOIs that I can use as future reference? |
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| Author: | jcgurango [ Wed Nov 17, 2010 6:17 pm ] |
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Just leave this one alone. If she barely speaks English, it'd be too easy to mistake her normal behavior for an IOI. (Example, if they normally play with their hair where she comes from.) There's many fish in the sea, you just have to bring a net. |
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| Author: | greasy [ Wed Nov 17, 2010 8:57 pm ] |
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Quote: Just leave this one alone. If she barely speaks English, it'd be too easy to mistake her normal behavior for an IOI. (Example, if they normally play with their hair where she comes from.) There's many fish in the sea, you just have to bring a net.
Culture is important to remember. For example, this girl in Hong Kong. If you pinch her ass, she will take it as a sign that you want to finish in her oral so she will spin around for you. But just because you pinch another cultural girl in the ass, it does not mean you can go for the oral orgasm. In fact, in some cultures, they will just slap you. Although probably not me. Usually, I can block these kinds of things. Also, OP, have you considered that what you think is a playful kick to your butt is in fact her attempt to beat you up? You probably made her very angry with something so she challenged you to wrestle. You probably made her angry with your full-nelson so now she kicks your butt. But she's a girl, her kick is probably too weak to damage a man's ass. |
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| Author: | _Lothario_ [ Wed Nov 17, 2010 10:09 pm ] |
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I disagree with the last two posts completely. Give her a stipulation that benefits you-no matter what. Loser buys dinner, beer, movie tickets, etc. If she shuts that down then just shrug and say no rematch. This is something you know she wants so you are in the power position here. You control the stipulations. If the rematch thing doesn't play anymore, just invite her along on one of your adventures. |
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| Author: | jungtionizer [ Thu Nov 18, 2010 4:43 am ] |
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thanks Spread Love Ders , and for the previous 2 posts... I did say that we are both black belts... I can tell when another black belt is kicking playfully or not... and as for the culture and language concern, thanks for your input, but I totally forgot mention that I speak her language too =) (i'm bilangual, sorry for not mentioning that) the reason why I made the initial post was because I was confused, since I made NO ATTEMPT at all to hit on her, and I barely even noticed her until I started to suspect her IOIs... now, getting back to the second question, is there a good forum post of some blog post about recognizing IOIs? |
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| Author: | _Lothario_ [ Sat Dec 04, 2010 10:00 pm ] |
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[quote="jungtionizer"]thanks Spread Love Ders , and for the previous 2 posts... I did say that we are both black belts... I can tell when another black belt is kicking playfully or not... and as for the culture and language concern, thanks for your input, but I totally forgot mention that I speak her language too =) (i'm bilangual, sorry for not mentioning that) the reason why I made the initial post was because I was confused, since I made NO ATTEMPT at all to hit on her, and I barely even noticed her until I started to suspect her IOIs... now, getting back to the second question, is there a good forum post of some blog post about recognizing IOIs?[/quote Yes, here is the iois-the-complete-list-vt12025.html |
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| Author: | Hank Moody [ Sat Dec 04, 2010 11:16 pm ] |
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Dude, your very caught up on the fact that u have not tried to hit on her, have u ever considers that she actually just likes u and that u dont have to play games, or build attraction or comfort etc. do the i will have a rematch but looser pays for whatever.... also dont u think it was a pretty big fucking point that u speak her language, u made a point that she does not speak yours. Dumbass good luck, |
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| Author: | _Lothario_ [ Sun Dec 05, 2010 6:45 am ] |
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Quote: Dude, your very caught up on the fact that u have not tried to hit on her, have u ever considers that she actually just likes u and that u dont have to play games, or build attraction or comfort etc.
oh come on hank really?
do the i will have a rematch but looser pays for whatever.... also dont u think it was a pretty big fucking point that u speak her language, u made a point that she does not speak yours. Dumbass good luck, |
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